A Meandering Memoir

5 THINGS I LOVE RIGHT NOW

2012-02-10T08:53:00.000-06:00

1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5

1. Colored pants - Skinny jeans. Cords. Slacks. I'll take 'em all!

2. Mail apps - You mean I can send an actual postcard with one of my pictures on it from my phone? Awesome!

3. Baseball - After watching Moneyball, I frequently find myself counting down the days until the start of the season.

4. Reddit.com - I can admit that I used to not like this place, but I have come to learn that it is pretty amazing. The stories are funny/informative/interesting and the people are great.

5. Essie nail polish - I got my first bottle (Andrew's treat) a few weeks ago. The colors are great and it last forever!

WEEKEND RECAP: FEB 3-5, 2012

2012-02-07T09:42:00.001-06:00

Our impersonations of our Little Big Planet character2

Highlights:

- Kicking off Omaha Beer Week in style at Crescent Moon

- Late night tipsy trips to Target

- Sleeping in super late because Andrew feeds the cats before he goes to bed

- Finally seeing True Grit

- Making dinner with Andrew

- Playing the Lord of the Rings game Em and Nick got us

- Not leaving the apartment on Saturday

- Seeing my fam

- Getting my piano back!

Lowlights:

-Andrew sleeping the better part of the day

- Scrapping off/digging out our cars on Sunday

- The Giants winning the Super Bowl (only because they beat the Packers...)

BIRTHDAY PIZZA

2012-02-04T12:48:00.002-06:00

Guess what? Guess what? Guess what? It's my birthday! well, almost... In case you didn't know, I'm pretty excited. Andrew even said the sweetest thing to me on January 31, "In a few hours, it will be your birthday month!" He knows me well.

I used to tell my grandpa when I was little that my birthday was after the new calendars came out. Smart kid! Well the new calendars are out, they have been flipped to the second month of the year, and it is time to celebrate. Someone get me a cupcake!

Thursday night, we had our first birthday date. I can call it that because, thanks to Old Chicago, we enjoyed a free medium pizza because I was born. Then I took him to see On Golden Pond at the Omaha Community Playhouse, and I didn't even make him pay! What a generous birthday girl am I?

This weekend, I will be making plans for the next couple of weeks to celebrate 26 years of making this world a better place.

Here's a little hint! 1 - 2 - 3

How did you celebrate your last birthday?

HELLO, I'M MICHAEL SCOTT

2012-01-31T16:40:00.000-06:00

Today, you can call me Michael Scott. I have ~~herpes~~ a cold sore...

There are many reasons a man would wear a fake mustache to work.

He's a fan of the outrageous. He loves to surprise. He loves other things as well.

Ironically, we just watched the episode where Michael tells all of his ex-girlfriends that he has herpes because he has a cold sore.

I don't know how this stuff even happens. I slept like crap last night and woke up with a disease on my face. I have had these since I was little, and you would think I would be used to it by now. It's a work in progress.

Today, I am thankful for Abreva and Michael Scott for making it bearable.

Quick! Someone get me a mustache!

STUFFED TACO PASTA

2012-01-30T19:23:00.001-06:00

I hope ya'll are hungry because I'm cooking up a tasty dinner! (said in Paula Deen voice...) I don't know why, but I couldn't get her voice out of my head tonight. And I hope when you make this recipe, you hear it too!

Tonight, Andrew and I whipped up some Taco Stuffed Pasta. Boom! (Kinda like Emeril? Where is this coming from?)

I don't know where I first saw this recipe. In fact, I couldn't even find the one I saw online and had to kind of make this up as I went along. Bear with me.

Jumbo pasta shells
1 lb ground meat
Taco seasoning (one packet or 1/4 cup)
2/3 cup water
4 oz. cream cheese
1 cup salsa
1 cup taco sauce
1/2 cup (or more... I won't judge) shredded cheddar cheese

1. Boil the pasta shells until tender but not floppy (very technical terms).

Action shot!

2. Turn your oven on. Set to 375 degrees.

3. Cook your meat and add taco seasoning and water. Simmer for 10 mins. Cube cream cheese, add to the taco meat, and stir until completely melted.

4. Add and spread salsa to the bottom of a 9x9" glass pan.

5. Stuff the pasta shells with the taco meat mixture and add them to the pan. I was able to add about 12 large stuffed shells.

5. Top with 1 cup taco sauce and stick it in the oven. Bake for 15ish mins. Add cheese, return to oven until the cheese has melted.

I give this recipe an 8.5 for ease of preparation and taste! Andrew gives this recipe a score of, "This is f---ing good!"

Enjoy!

EXPLORE THE CITY

2012-01-28T10:49:00.000-06:00

Last night, Andrew and I decided it was time to hit the town. Since he has been working nights, we haven't gotten to see much of each other so a night out seemed to be just what we needed.

Leffe Blonde, Monk's Cafe, Husband

Before we even get to dinner, we have to stop at Krug Park for a drink. This is only the second time we have been there, but I could see us becoming regulars pretty fast! This bar is the best. The decor is awesome, the beer menu is fantastic, and everyone we have talked to while we have been there is extraordinarily nice. The prices seems to be a bit high... but then again, you aren't drinking Bud Light here! They have over 50 beers on tap and vast assortment of bottles to choose from. Oh yeah, and we ran in to our college friend, Hillary while we were there. She lives in Omaha now, and love Krug Park as much as we do. Who knew?

Try that Chipotle sauce. Oh my! Delicious.

Andrew only let us stay for one drink. He was hungry, yo! We then went to Blanc Burgers + Bottles in Midtown Crossing. I have heard mediocre reviews about this place, but I don't have many complaints. By the time we got there at 7:30, the place was still hopping.

Meatloaf Burger, Lucky Bucket Lager Onion Rings, Bison Burger

Of course we had to start with a bottle, my only complaint? The glass that they poured it into was a little warm... Bummer. Other than that, the food was good but the presentation was even better. Mini cart for your fries? Don't mind if I do.

The only other comment I would have to make is about the ambiance. Tone it down! With the lights at full blast and white and orange as decor colors, it was bright. Recommendation? Sunglasses with every order.

Food: 7
Drink menu: 8
Atmosphere: 5
Final score: 7

Our next stop brought us to Film Streams. Nothing like a good ole classic date, dinner and a movie. Our current goal is to see all of the Best Picture Nominees for the Academy Awards before the big night. Well, we can cross one off our list, The Artist. I was hesitant about a silent film, but you will here no complaints from Andrew and I. Perfecto!

And the theater? More than I expected! Film Streams is located in north downtown, and they mainly show indie films and other shows not playing at larger theaters (think limited release stuff). Although they could have made the aisles slightly wider, we were happy with it overall. Oh, and we can get drinks there! So chic.

Final score: 9

Stay tuned for more fun around the city!

BRIDESMAIDS

2012-01-24T21:58:00.000-06:00

Ok, so after finally sorting through some wedding photos tonight and being reminded of it this weekend, I had to watch my bridesmaids video. I didn't have a maid of honor and because someone has to speak for me, I decided to do a video. I knew that I didn't want it to drag on and on and get too sappy, and they listened! The girls organized all of this and I couldn't be happier with the outcome.

I love my friends so much (including Nick for doing the slicing and dicing)! Enjoy!

CORN SALSA

2012-01-20T06:27:00.000-06:00

Last night was bittersweet. I said goodbye to 56 of my vases from the wedding. (Don't worry I kept a few as mementos!)

Although part of me was sad to see them go, I am so glad to have the space back! Here's to reclaiming your apartment after your wedding!

But then it was time to drown my sorrows... in corn salsa!

I originally got this recipe from my Aunt Diann after trying it at one of her awesome pool parties, and it has been a staple at my parties ever since.

Emily was on her hands and knees begging me to bring it this today for girls weekend. It's just so hard to make that I didn't know if I would have the time or energy.

Ok, so maybe I'm exaggerating. This this recipe is way easy! And now, I will share it with you!

2 can whole kernel corn, drained

1 red onion, diced finely

1 cup cilantro, chopped

1 green pepper, chopped

3 jalapeno peppers, seeded and chopped finely

3/4 cup Kraft Zesty Italian Dressing

Mix all together and chill. It's always better the next day!

As you can see from my pictures, I used jarred jalapenos and green and red peppers. Really I just used these because it's what I had in my fridge. And guess what? It still tastes amazing! Just use what you have and adjust to your liking. Perfecto!

Now that I have shared this with everyone, do you think I will get invited to less parties because they don't need me for my corn salsa? I guess I will know soon enough.

INKED

2012-01-17T16:19:00.002-06:00

In my effort to continue to journey of badass-ness, I'm really thinking about getting another tattoo. It's been on my radar for awhile, and I even know where I want it! But I just can't settle on what I want it to be. I don't want something that looks cool, I want a tattoo that means something to me. Like a saying or a symbol that embodies my ideas, hobbies, loves, and/or beliefs.

Also, I don't know what it means, but I have been having some crazy dreams! Wanna hear about 'em? Too bad, I'm going to tell you anyway.

In my last two tattoo dreams, I have been getting tattoos without my knowledge. Like I agree to the first one, and the rest are done without my consent. The first time, my mom wanted me and my sisters to get a matching tattoo with her. I was down with that, but when the tattoo artist finished, I had six tattoos. The next time, Andrew convinced me to get a tattoo with him. When the artist finished I had six tattoos again. And they weren't little... I'm talking like three giant tattoos on my back. What does this mean?!

Crazy dreams be damned! I will not be stopped. Now, can someone help me come up with an idea/drawing for a really rockin' tat? Ok. Thanks!

*all tat pics found via pinterest.

NEW YEAR, NEW STUFF

2012-01-12T21:28:00.001-06:00

I have been thinking about this a lot lately. What do I want out of this year? How can I make it great? The answer is, I don't know. I mean I have a idea of what I want to do, but I feel like most of these things are tried and true resolutions.

Become healthier.
Travel more.
Pay off debt.

Isn't this what everyone wants? Do I need to be more specific? Can I just resolve to make everyday awesome? So here is what I have come up with:

Read 3 classic books.
Start planing (and saving) for a trip to Europe.
Go on more dates with my husband.
Discover more of what Omaha has to offer.
Rediscover my favorite hobbies: playing piano and sewing.

In addition to my personal list, Andrew and I (mostly me) have made a bucket list. Out of two years, we have done very few items on these lists. So this year's bucket list is the other bucket lists combined! Clever, I know.

What are your resolutions? Do you do resolutions? What about bucket lists?

WEEKEND RECAP: NYE & JAN 6-8

2012-01-09T14:32:00.000-06:00

I'm back!

I bet you thought I fell of the face of the earth. Nope! Lucky you! Here is a run down of the last few weekends.

New Year's Eve weekend:

I have to thank my coworker Suzie for letting me get of a tad early on Friday. Because of that, we were able to get a head start on our way to MN to see Andrew's fam. It was a long drive and Andrew wouldn't stop for me to get some sushi to go... but we made it! I dropped Andrew off at our friend Brenden's apartment to get in some quality time, and I went to Jenny and Chris's to get some sleep.

Saturday, we met up with his parents and went to Mall of America for lunch and window shopping. That's right. I didn't actually buy anything. I'm kinda sad about it. Next time... We also saw Sarah and Ryan! They were in town for the football game the next day and it was nice to stop and chat for a few mins.

That's right, we grilled 'em!

That night was NYE! We stayed in and cooked up enough food to feed a small army. There was appetizers, steak AND crab legs. With full bellies and a little champagne, we rang in the new year in style.

Andrew talking Jim through a video game!

Sunday was a little slower. Jenny wasn't feeling well, but we made the best of it. More food, lots of football, and a few card games filled the day. We also celebrated Flater family Christmas and Jim's birthday! Nothing like killing two birds with one stone.

Monday we said goodbye to the family and met up with Brendan and his girlfriend for brunch before heading out of town. He took us to Al's in Dinkytown.

You actually have to stand behind the stools at the bar to wait for a seat.

It was great! I had never been in such a tiny restaurant, but the food was worth the wait.

It was so great to see everyone! Thanks for the great time MN! Until next time!

This weekend, Andrew and I were lame. And it was awesome. Friday we went shopping and saw the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo! Fantastic movie! Andrew worked a bit on Saturday and Sunday, and we spent the rest of the time playing cards (Phase 10 on sale at Target for $1.50! Whoop!) and watching tv. We have vowed to do more with our lives in the coming year, but we really needed this break.

Upcoming posts: I'll tell you about my new years resolutions and my latest cooking kick. Happy Monday!

ZOMBIES

2011-12-29T08:53:00.004-06:00

I am so tired! Two nights of staying up way past my bedtime on a work night equals one sleepy lady.

On Tuesday night, Alex, Kelly, and one of their friends were grounded in Omaha after their flight to NYC was cancelled. Don't feel too bad for them. They got to hang out with us! And we are pretty cool in case you didn't know. A few drinks, some scratch tickets, and strong debate about babies in harnesses consumed most of our night. It was so good to see them! I think a trip to Ames is in order soon.

Last night, Andrew and I were dragging, and there was no way I was cooking dinner. On to Granite City! After we refueled, I convinced Andrew that we needed to go to the mall. He had to get some new jeans, and I just wanted to look. Well looking turned into a shopping spree! Fashion show!

Here, Andrew is sporting his new Calvin Klein jeans and Timberland waffle shirt. He also found a Oscar de la Renta sweater (This was only $20 down from $70! What?! We are good.) and Gap button up. Total: $83

And after many failed attempts at jean hunting, I scored some two pairs of work pants and two long sleeve tees from Gap. Total: $45 Bargain shopping is my fave :)

Then we headed to the Slowdown to see Jenna's concert. Her band, Conduits, is awesome, and I really love their music! I would like their album now, please. Alas, it looks like we will have to wait just a little bit longer... Until then, you can check out a few of their tracks online.

Can I go to bed now? Please?

CHRISTMAS 2011

2011-12-26T14:32:00.000-06:00

Despite my lack of Christmas enthusiasm, my holiday weekend was fun and far too short.

After work on Friday, we headed to my hometown for a weekend full of festivities. Well, I guess we didn't go straight to Woodbine. We passed right through to go to a surprise bday party in Dunlap for my good friend Katie's sister. She was surprised and it was great to catch up with everyone.

After the party, we checked in with my sisters at the Buffalo Club and then went back to Katie's for what is quickly turning into a yearly (or bi-yearly with trips to Andrew's parents house) poker tournament. Oh, how I love these tournaments! Maybe it's because I won that past two tournaments. Yeah, I think that might have something to do with it. We didn't get back to my parents place until (drumroll please...) 2:30 am! Good grief! Party animals.

Saturday was spent lounging around, watching football, making cookies, doing puzzles, and eating more food than anyone should every consume in a day.

This is the best pic. We couldn't slow down and waste time with pics.

My sister even brought her roommates dog, Willa! She is quite possibly the cutest bulldog ever. And she loves me. That night, we went to the 11 pm church service that didn't end until 12:30 am. I love you all, but that is far too long. I was tired, yo! And don't they know that Santa is coming? Needless to say, I went to bed ASAP.

And what did I find when I woke up? Santa had come! He is the best. Presents galore!

This is what half of my Santa looks like!

We had to wait for my brother and sister-in-law to arrive before we could start, but it was worth the wait. I'm now the proud owner of:
- Willow Tree Three Wise Men
- Perfume
- Pepper spray (My dad thought this was a very logical gift for all of the girls this year. At least it's pink!)
- Visa gift card (I'm think leather boots are in my near future)

Other than driving Pops home and catching the second half of the Packers game that pretty much ended our night. And after such a long weekend, I got some much needed rest!

What did Santa bring you for Christmas?

CHRISTMAS CHEER

2011-12-23T13:11:00.003-06:00

My Christmas cheer is missing, and I don't know where to find it... This year, the holidays came out of nowhere. And now that they are here, they are disappearing faster than they came.

I blame the snow and all of the snow haters. It's no where to be find. (Points finger) And it's all your fault! Haven't you haters heard of a white Christmas? I don't live in California. I want my snow, and I want it now! - - - Tantrum over.

My cures for the Christmas blues include but are not limited to:

Listening to my extensive Christmas playlist on Spotify - Five hours on shuffle sounds about right.
Gingerbread lattes from Starbucks
Donating to the Salvation Army red kettles - This year, the guy who most looked like Santa got my cash.
Sledding or snowman building
Watching Muppets Christmas - No laughing, please.
Going shopping when the mall is packed - I need to feel the panicked energy of everyone else who waited last minute to buy any gifts.
Christmas lights tour

I would say wrapping presents, but I was highly disappointed with my paper selection this year. How did I end up with only blue snowman/snowflake Christmas wrapping paper? Blasphemy!

But I guess the holidays aren't over yet. I hope Jenny and Chris are ready for an obnoxious amount of cheesy dollar store party hats and decorations so we can ring in the new year properly.

What are your cures for the holiday blues? And please don't say eggnog. You eggnog people are on your own.

WEEKEND RECAP: DEC 16-19

2011-12-21T19:22:00.000-06:00

It's Wednesday. I think that means I should have updated my blog by now. Without further adieu...

Friday: Surprise! Andrew took me to Target to buy some beer for our weekend trip, but he lied. He was buying me a new digital camera instead! I can't believe he got away with it. Put a point on the board for Andrew! I hope you guys love it as much as I do :)

Trying on our clothes for tomorrow!

Saturday: We managed to wake up, run errands, AND get on the road on time. With a Starbucks in hand mind you. KC here we come! After meeting up with Nick and Emily and chowing down on some hotel grub (It was just ok...) it was time to go shopping.

The Plaza! This place has everything. We dropped some money at H&M and Forever21 and we did some window shopping at Betsy Johnson and North Face. This area of town is beautiful! Maybe next time we can take a carriage ride?

Next up, dinner at McCoy's and drinks at Kelly's with Emily's sister, her fiance, and his sister. Oh, and another surprise! We saw our friend, Will! He lives in KC and saw us drive by. What are the odds? We headed back to the hotel fairly early to catch some shut eye before our early morning wake up call. But we didn't go to bed right away... Oh, no we didn't! There were a few YouTube videos (1 & 2) and lots of jokes about my leftover buns from dinner.

Sunday: Game day! Packers gear on! Beers in hand and brats in our tummies, we headed for the stadium. Go Pack Go!

Or so we thought... The game was fun, but the stairs to our seats, the Packers losing, and our walk of shame to the hotel were not so fun.

We recovered. KC BBQ at Gates was up next! Too bad I gave it a big thumbs down... The meat wasn't for me and the sauce was just too hot. Sorry, KC. Better luck next time.

This made me smile! Thank you construction man!

Time to go home. I will miss Nick and Emily until next time. But I hope the next time I see KC, it has something better up it's sleeve.

WEEKEND RECAP: DECEMBER 9-11

2011-12-12T14:58:00.001-06:00

Friday night Andrew and I went to his work Christmas party. Paypal has the best parties! The food is awesome! And my favorite part of the night... photo booth! Andrew was a little nervous because they would run the photo booth pictures on four giant screens. No big deal. The are awesome! Can I have a photo booth in my apartment?

Afterwards, we met up with some of his coworkers for a few drinks at Houstons. They are some fun people, and I hope we hang out with them again soon.

On Saturday, Andrew went to work (gotta love that overtime!) and I hung out at home. My day consisted of a large to-do list to motivate myself to do something other than browse the internet and drink my warm, delicious coffee...mmmm. This means that I addressed our Christmas cards and they should be coming soon!

Andrew rolling and writing down a losing roll. And then my epic Yahtzee!

Saturday night I babysat, Sunday Andrew worked some more overtime, and that means we don't get to see each other all weekend... Until Sunday night! Then we enjoyed some Yahtzee!, Mario Kart, and Packers football. Oh, and some killer risotto that we whipped up together. We are awesome.

How was your weekend?

BABY FEVER

2011-12-05T16:44:00.001-06:00

Ever since my friend Mallory has announced her little one, it seems like I have been seeing babies and baby things everywhere. And I love it! I love babysitting. I love seeing all the little ones at church. I love decorating an imaginary nursery in an imaginary house. (And it's super cute by the way!)

This one is cute! +

I expected a lot of baby pressure once the wedding was over, and I'm surprised at the lack of questioning Andrew and I have gotten about starting our own family. And for that, I say thank you! Although, maybe it would curb my desires in a "You can't tell me what to do," sort of way. (I think I have always been a little defiant like that.)

I know that eventually I want kids. And I also know that my mom and dad are really looking forward to being grandparents someday. And I hope to give them that joy very soon with a new puppy (Andrew - Christmas present? Please?) They just love their furry grandchildren!

But lately... I find that I have to remind myself of the reasons I want to wait.

Last night, Andrew and I visited our friend's Justin and Nicole who just had a very sweet little boy. I got to visit with Nicole (and Brecklin) a lot while the boys played with their toys in the basement. Although it sounds like a lot of work, he is just so precious, and tiny, and so cute! Seeing him didn't really reinforce my desired timeline.

I have things to do, places to go, and people to see! And once kids are in the picture, all of that has to slow down a bit. And I am still raring to go!

But can I still do everything I want to do with a baby literally strapped to me? I don't know. And I'm not sure I'm quite ready to find out.

WEEKEND RECAP: DECEMBER 2-4

2011-12-05T16:30:00.001-06:00

Another weekend at home! This is fantastic. I get to actually do things. Like sleep in. Craft. Cook/bake. Who knew! I think I could go for a couple more weekends like this one.

Friday:

Workout

Dinner with the hubby

Ohhh, those green beans!

After another disappointing encounter with Brazen Head (a cover to just eat dinner and leave, no thank you!), we went to Cheddars! It was nommy! And cheap. But good cheap.

Saturday:

Starbucks

Errands

Laziness

Drinks with Jill and Steve (from our softball league!)

Oh and it snowed! Beautiful, beautiful snow. I had been waiting for this stuff for awhile now, and it was worth the wait. I'm now onboard the Christmas train. Bring on the holiday tunes.

Ps. Drinks at Fox and Hound are way overpriced. I will not make that mistake again. Oops!

Sunday:
I got Andrew to do a 10 Pound Slimdown Extreme workout with me. He said, "She doesn't mess around." Uhhh, duh. I hope he is sore today!

Then it was time for football, reading, baking, and finally a trip to Bed, Bath, and Beyond where we spent some more of our gift cards and ran into cousin Kyle and Amie!

Crafting is hard work!

A very productive and relaxing weekend to boot! Next weekend: The much anticipated Paypal Christmas party!

OH CHRISTMAS TREE

2011-11-28T21:51:00.001-06:00

It all started with a phone call this afternoon. We were getting a Christmas tree. It will probably take the cake for best thing to happen to me this week! I could hardly contain my excitement.

Kitty in a box!

Armed with gift cards from the wedding and a Target coupon, we went shopping! I wasn't thrilled at first. I thought it was too skinny. But it turns out that it was perfect for our tiny apartment. And I love it so much!

Mom, please add the three wise men to my Christmas list!

We put of the rest of the decorations and our apartment is now complete, decorated, and full of Christmas cheer. Now, who wants some egg nog? And where is that snow I asked for?

OLD MAN

2011-11-23T06:06:00.001-06:00

Andrew's birthday is this weekend! Sometimes I think that he has the best birthday. Because his birthday is on the 27th, it's always around Thanksgiving. That means that he gets to spend his birthday with friends and family, gets an awesome meal, and unlike Christmas, he doesn't have to worry about it getting overshadowed with other things. Everyone is always up for celebrating a birthday around Thanksgiving!

The downfall... I almost never get a chance to celebrate with him as a couple on his birthday. For example, this Sunday we will be driving for a good part of the day, and I'm sure after a weekend for of celebrating we will just want to crash when we get home. Because of this, I always plan his birthday during the week.

Last night, we celebrated! After a killer birthday surprise last year, I had to step up my game. My original idea was to make a choose your own adventure book to take us from dinner to, to an activity, to dessert. And it morphed into this little book! Andrew still got to make all the choices, and I got to just sit back and let the fun unfold.

Let's start from the beginning.

Tonight we celebrate,
my favorite man!
Let’s get started,
on the night’s game plan.

You will decide
the route that we take.
Your birthday will be determined
by the choices you make.

The decisions won’t be hard
and should be made with ease.
Don’t get worried now!
This will be a breeze.

Turn the page,
to let the fun begin!
The first choice will be,
where we go for din-din!

I hope you are hungry.
It’s time from some grub!
We could be going anywhere,
from a dive to a pub!

You won’t know the location,
until you take your pick.
But I’m already hungry!
So make your choice quick.

A. Steak
B. Italian
C. Exotic

The last pic is an older couple celebrating their anniversary. Cute!

He chose steak! So we were off to Brother Sebastian's. I had never heard of it until a coworker told me that she and her husband were going there for their anniversary. The decor and theme was so cool. It felt like we had stepped into a monastery. The servers even wore robes! The food was good, but not as great as I had hoped, but I think we would go back just for the atmosphere.

While we were eating dinner, Andrew went through the rest of the book to determine our activity (that we are going to save for another night) and his gift.

The wait is over,
and it’s time for your gift.
Although there’s no rush,
this decision will be swift.

Each choice is a desire,
you have voiced before.
So I’m sure your selection
won’t be a bore.

A. Clothing
B. Housewares
C. Media (He will be getting the new Zelda game for Wii)

Because the night is short,
and tomorrow is a work day,
we don’t have the time
to go out and play.

Try not to cry,
as this date is not done.
We will save the activity,
when we have more time for fun.

A. Movie
B. Ice Skating
C. Hockey Game

I was so excited when he chose ice skating. Con Agra opens an outdoor rink in December, and I think it will be so much fun.

Because we were done with dinner sooner than expected, Andrew picked our a movie for us from Redbox. Bridesmaids! I know... I'm a little late to this party. But it was so good, and sad. How come no one told me that I would laugh AND cry? C'mon!

I think Andrew really like his early birthday. I'm already excited to see what I come up with next year!

THE NAME GAME

2011-11-22T14:37:00.000-06:00

How sweet is this beard alphabet? And some other cool ones too!

Well, it's official. Last week, I got my drivers license with my new last name. Everything else might take awhile (reward clubs, online accounts, etc...), but I am now legally a Flater. (Pronounced like Slater)

Recently, I have been signing my new last name but forgetting to cross the "t" and still dotting an "i" that is no longer there. I guess it's just going to take some practice.

So let's all ~~cheers~~ take an Apple Pucker shot in celebration of my new name!

WEDDING RECAP

2011-11-15T05:30:00.000-06:00

Now that life as returned to normal in the Flater household, I thought it was about time I give a recap of our wedding day.

Let's start with Saturday. With coffee in hand, we head to our nail appointment while the guys are probably just waking up. Their weren't enough nail techs available when we first arrived, but it gave us some time to sit and chat.

While we were there, I learned from Mallory (she is awesome.) that the bulk flowers for the reception still hadn't arrived. After making a few phone calls, I learned that the company we had ordered them from forgot to change the delivery address to Mallory's home after delivering the wrong flowers to her work address the day before. So while Mallory was off on a flower adventure, I went to get ready for the music rehearsal before the wedding rehearsal. Because it had been raining all day, we moved the music rehearsal inside along with the wedding rehearsal. Rehearsal went smoothly, I walked too fast, and the music sounded great.

Why can I not find any rehearsal dinner pics? I know there are more out there somewhere!

The rehearsal dinner was another story. Because of the down pour, it rained on our ~~parade~~ bbq/cookout/rehearsal dinner. We had no lawn games, lots of warm clothing, and an umbrella to keep the grill dry, so I guess we managed. After the dinner, I headed to Mallory's for a sleepover. We played with Bob (her cat), I made a belt for the wedding (Mallory was skeptical the whole time!), and we hit the hay.

Sunday: I slept surprising well until I barely woke up at 6 am and realized it was the big day! After a quick shower, Mallory and I loaded up the car with buckets or flowers and headed to Ames. On to hair appointments! Because I didn't stick with the style we tried at my hair trial, I was anxious to see how everything would turn out. But Hayley is amazing and she did a great job with hair and make-up.

Immediately after hair, I went to pick up the bouquets... (This is where you would play a sad trombone.) They were so much smaller than I had imagined (and what my picture looked like), some of the flowers were neon, and the billy balls were all bunched in the middle. (I actually don't like to talk about this because it makes me sad...) I almost tossed them and had everyone go without. Who needs bouquets anyway?!?

Luckily, I had made the guys "button"ineers, and they looked awesome.

We were then off to the reception site to decorate...

While the guys set up the chairs for the ceremony. Easy enough? Too easy...

We then went back to the hotel, everyone got ready, and before you could blink it was time for pictures. Cassie Garnet was our photographer for the day, and she is simply wonderful. I think this is the point where Andrew started getting anxious/nervous. He wanted to look over the marriage license, he realized he had forgot to set-up the table for the remembrance flowers (let me just say that I hate flowers at this point in the day) and programs (Sarah K and Laura A to the rescue!), and he needed a minute alone. I, on the other hand, popped some bubbly and just relaxed with my girls. The ceremony went swimmingly.

Andrew's aunts played the music for the ceremony. It was exactly like I had imagined, and I am so grateful for their help.

Andrew got teary when he saw me walk down the aisle (the first time he had seen me since the night before) and it was over in a flash (no really, it took maybe 10 mins) After a few more photos it was time to eat, drink, and be merry!

The reception went smoothly, the food was good, our DJ was great, and we had a great time on the dance floor.

The shuttle bus back to the hotel was even a good time! We did head to the bar for a nightcap at the nearby bar before we headed back to the hotel, ordered Fighting Burrito, and passed out.

All in all, it was a good day. If I had to do it all over again, there are some things I would do different

- Choose the outfits for the bridal party

(The mismatched motif just didn't turn out the way I had imagined.)

- Make my own bouquets

- Spend more time worrying about what I'm going to look like

(Making the belt the night before the wedding?!?! Crazy bride... Also, the only thing I forgot to bring from home was my cardigan. Oops.)

- Spend less money

(DJ, dress, etc...)

My favorite parts of the day:

- The vows

- Food

- Toasts

- Dance party!

Least favorite parts of the day:

- Waiting until 4 pm for the ceremony

- Trying to avoid seeing Andrew

I think that sums it up. I promise to never-ever-ever-ever write another post this long!

WEEKEND RECAP: NOVEMBER 11-13

2011-11-14T05:00:00.000-06:00

Check out the awesome broach bouquet!

Well, this was the last wedding for awhile... It's bitter sweet. I love weddings, but I think I have had my fill for awhile. Kyle and Amie's wedding was beautiful! Everything went smoothly, the food was great, and it was so nice to see ALL of my family in one place! We were able to kick back and catch up with everyone at the rehearsal dinner on Friday and the wedding and reception on Saturday. I only wish it could happen more often!

Sunday was quieter. Andrew and I went to a play at the Omaha Community Playhouse. We saw Flyin' West. It was a great Sunday afternoon activity to tear us away from our regular football games. We are really looking forward to going to A Christmas Carol next month. I can't believe Christmas is almost here!

Next weekend will be a quiet one. Andrew will be going hunting with my family, and I will be staying at home doing nothing! It's going to be great!

What did you do this weekend?

CHOPPING FOR CHARITY

2011-11-09T20:54:00.000-06:00

My thoughts leading up to the big chop.

Wednesday night: Oh, crap! Tomorrow is my hair appt. It's too late to back out. I'm going to miss my hair. I think I am going to ask Andrew to come with me. I hope I don't regret it. Ouch, ouch, ouch! (My hair got caught in my sports bra...) I hate this hair. I can't wait until it's gone.

Thursday: It still hasn't set in yet. Oh crap, I forgot to ask Andrew to come with me. I hope I don't hate it.

Haircut Time: So nervous. So nervous. (cut) I'm so glad it's gone! It feels so light! And fresh! And short! And amazing! Hooray!

Thank you Photo Booth for the terrible photo quality. Much appreciated.

Friday: I wish I would have done this sooner!

TV TIME

2011-11-09T10:45:00.000-06:00

Lately, Andrew and I have been struggling with the number of tv shows that we regularly watch and follow. Just this last week, we added another one to our roster, American Horror Story (highly recommended!). But every time I turn around, someone is recommending that we add this show or that show to our weekly agenda.

Currently we are ~~watching~~ addicted to:

Breaking Bad

Dexter

Walking Dead

American Horror Story (we watched 5 episodes this weekend to get caught up...)

Game of Thrones

Shows we were watching and want to get caught up on:

Parks and Recreation

30 Rock

The Office

United States of Tara (this show was cancelled... but we are watching it through Netflix)

Shows we talk about watching:

Mad Men

Sometimes I feel like all we do is watch tv.... So I'm wondering, how many is too many? How many do you watch? But whatever you do, please don't entice me to add another one to this enormous list.

WEEKEND RECAP: HALLOWEEN & NOV 4 - 6

2011-11-07T19:50:00.001-06:00

You can two weekend in one post this week! Lucky you!

I will start with Halloween. Last weekend we went to Andrew's parents after work on Friday. Unfortunately this meant that we couldn't watch game seven of the World Series, but we were able to listen to it on the radio for most of our six hour drive. Go Cards!

On Saturday, we spent the day hauling salt for Jim and Steph, having lunch with Andrew's grandparents, and carving pumpkins. I love carving pumpkins! Before I knew it, it was time to get read for the scavenger hunt! Are you ready to see my costume? Drum roll....

Mary Poppins! Early that week, my friend Mallory told me that she didn't know who Mary Poppins was. Unspeakable! After I told Andrew about this, he confessed he hadn't seen the movie either. What is wrong with you people?!

The other cosumes were: Jenny and Chris as meatballs. Jim and Steph as hippies. And another classic costume by Andrew, he went as his dad.

The scavenger hunt was fun and cold! I hope we can go back for other events at the local country club. Those people really know how to have a good time.

This week, we got to stay home! Freaking yes! No driving. Have I mentioned how much I hate all the driving we have been doing. The amount of gas and miles we have put on Andrew's car is disgusting. And it's all over for awhile. So, I'm thankful when Mat and Ashley said they wanted to come visit us!

Friday: Jason and Laura joined us at our apartment for some beers and games. I think we all forgot how old we were for a minute when we thought it was a good idea to play drinking games. I will never ride that bus again!

Saturday: We went to the Joslyn Art Museum! It is free on Saturdays until noon, and I really loved it! You know what else I love? Lunch at Wheatfields. YUM! Followed by a stroll around the Old Market and then a nap. Then I was off to babysit, while Andrew showed them one of our favorite hole-in-the-wall bars, Mai Tai Lounge. After getting incredibly freaked out while babysitting after the power went out...twice (thank you Paranormal Activity and American Horror Story), I met them at Crescent Moon where I was serenaded by Mat, Ashley, and Andrew singing Wonderwall by Oasis. What a great way to end the night.

MONDAY

2011-10-31T16:53:00.000-05:00

Today I got frustrated. I was short-tempered. I didn't want to do the things that were required of me.

I guess that's what you call a Monday.

I don't like it when I get like this. I listen to others around me be so patient and have so much love in their voice. I want to be like that, and I get disappointed when I'm not. But I will try to remember to love myself anyway.

"I must learn to love the fool in me--the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries. It alone protects me against that utterly self-controlled, masterful tyrant whom I also harbor and who would rob me of human aliveness, humility, and dignity but for my fool." -- Theodore I. Rubin, MD

(via A CUP OF JO)

COSTUME TIME!

2011-10-28T14:58:00.001-05:00

Even though I am now way to old to be trick-or-treating without a child in tow, I love to get dressed up. It's a lot of fun to meet up with friends, enjoy a few brews (punny!), and laugh at all of the girls who bought the costume with the least amount of fabric who are now freezing.

Over the last few years (with the help of my mom), I have loved my costumes! I have been...

Alice in Wonderland

Beer Wench

A Lion Tamer/Ringmaster (my personal favorite)

Andrew and I as Salt and Pepper

(not to be confused with Salt-n-Pepa, that would be silly)

And my favorite one that Andrew has done... Nascar fan! And what a handsome fan he was!

This year, I have to dress up for the little kids who will come from preschool to trick-or-treat at my door. That means that this costume must be PG. Andrew had originally said that he wanted to do a couples costume. But he didn't seem too interested after he couldn't find the perfect hat. I'm just putting the finishing touches on my costume, and it should be ready to go for the party this weekend and the kiddos next week.

Any guesses as to what I will be?!

ROOM MAKEOVER

2011-10-27T20:39:00.000-05:00

I wish I could say that we have done a lot to spruce the place us since we have been married, but that isn't really the case. We do little things here and there, but it's hard to make it feel like it's yours when it's isn't really "yours."

The one nice thing that we have have done is gotten a new bed comforter. I wish I had taken a before of our bedroom! The one we had before was Andrew from when he was growing up. You read that right... from when he was growing up! Gross.

The boxes are vases from the wedding. Interested in buying some milk glass?

Here is my short list of things that I would like to see happen to make over our bedroom:
- baskets for under the nightstands
- knobs for the dresser
- headboard
- artwork
- bedskirt
- mounted flat screen (not going to happen!)

Look at those sad empty walls... but I'm working on it! I'm having a lot of fun looking for artwork to go with the new bedding. I have found a website that I love Society6. They have a ton of reasonably price, cool, prints.

1 - 2 - 3

I don't know. What do you guys think? Like any of these? See anything else? Help me! I guess I'm terrible at making decorating decisions.

I'll try to post update as they happen. Until then...To be continued...

WEEKEND RECAP: OCT. 21-23

2011-10-25T06:45:00.000-05:00

This weekend marked the 3rd annual Flater-Reed Halloween Extravaganza!

There was pumpkin carving, lots of laughing, strategizing, cooking, and drinking. It was the perfect kind of weekend. Let me walk you through it.

Friday: Dinner with local friends at Buffalo Wings and Rings. (This should happen more often! Lots o' fun!) Then Nick and Emily arrived! We went back to our place for some brews and games and lots of iPhone talk. Did I mention we played Hero Quest? Score!

Saturday: Run with Emily, cook, nap, play games, carve pumpkins, drink some more, and hit the hay.

Sunday: We finished up the our latest round of Hero Quest and then Nick and Emily had to go...

but then it was time for some football. And puzzles! Or should I say, and puzzles... This dang thing took forever! 8 hours later and it still wasn't finished. Why? Because the pieces have multiple potential spots. Ugh. We gave up and started forcing the pieces to fit. Why? Because we can. I love Sunday!

That about sums up our weekend. Oh! But before I go, I just wanted to share with you a video that had us laughing to the point of crying all weekend.

Who is this girl? Someone get her on Tosh.0!

STRAWBERRY PRETZEL SALAD

2011-10-19T06:35:00.000-05:00

Last night I made a salad that my mom has has been making since I was little. It has been at almost every Thanksgiving and Christmas that I can think of. I can remember one year, my cousin's son, Jalen, lost a tooth while eating it. I hope that doesn't happen tonight when I take this salad to the youth group pot luck!

Unfortunately, I didn't have the time or patience to look for my Mom's recipe (love you, Mom!), so I used this one instead. I used it after doing a search on pinterest which is now my go to for pretty much anything. But without further ado...

Jello Pretzel Salad

by Lisa Poulsen

2 1/2 c. pretzels (crushed fine)

3 Tbsp. brown sugar

3/4 c. butter

1 (6 oz) pkg instant strawberry jello

1 10 oz. pkg. frozen strawberries or small container (16 oz) sliced fresh strawberries

1 ( 8 oz ) pkg cream cheese

1 c. sugar

8 oz. cool whip

1. Combine pretzels, brown sugar, and melted butter and press into a greased 9 X 13 pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 10 minutes. - I started by using my handy dandy new food processor to crush up the pretzels. That thing worked like a charm!

2. Make jello according to directions and add the strawberries. Refrigerate until partially set. *If it is not set enough it will leak through your cream cheese layer and make your pretzels soggy.

3. Facetime with you friends who just got a new iPhone. - Although this step is not required, it was a lot of fun!

4. Beat cream cheese and sugar until smooth. Blend in cool whip. Spread over cooled crust make sure you spread completely to the edges to create a seal so your jello doesn't leak through. - Almost done!

Not blood, jello stains.

5. Clean up. - But be careful while cleaning a food processor, those things are dangerous! There is nothing I wouldn't do in the name of a good salad. Sacrifice.

6. Pour jello over cream cheese layer. Refrigerate. - It should say wait, and wait, and wait for your jello to set and then get too tired to wait any longer and at 11 pm put it on the top anyway. Or just don't make this at 9 pm if you want to go to bed at 10 pm. Oops.

Don't worry. (I know it was going to just ruin your day if I didn't tell you everything was fine.) The jello set nicely and all was right in the world. I just hope it tastes good. Kids are the most honest judges you will ever find. Maybe if I bribe them with candy they will go easy on me?

WEEKEND RECAP: OCTOBER 14-16

2011-10-17T20:38:00.001-05:00

This was the first weekend in a loooong time that I had some free time. And it felt so good! No wedding planning, no traveling, no nothing. It was much needed.

Friday: We went bowling with the Czech Club. We had a few beers, some great pulled pork, and a few terrible games of bowling. But "Becky" (my tried and true bowling ball) did me good. At one point, I was even winning. The winning didn't last long, but it was a small victory.

Saturday: Farmer's Market! It was the last one of the year :( But it was beautiful weather and I had great company. We even stopped at the candy shop (my new favorite spot), before heading to lunch/brunch. And just like a kid, I ate my dessert BEFORE we had our meal. A cookie baked inside of a brownie... yes!

I then treated Andrew to lunch at Tommy Colina's. It's a new restaurant in town and there food was drool-worthy. I had the Omaha Omlet and Andrew got a very-typical-of-him breakfast burrito. I wouldn't mind going back to this place to give their lunch/dinner a try.

The rest of the day was spent grocery shopping, napping, taste testing some fall ales, and getting caught up on The Walking Dead. YES! We didn't catch the newest episode (and season premiere) last night, but we will watch it tonight. It's everything I ever wanted in a zombie show.

Friday night, we met up with some softball friends to celebrate Jill's birthday. It was nice to hang out with some new people and meet others! But our usual grandma/grandpa selves we were in bed by midnight.

Sunday: Run, made Andrew some pancakes, football, softball, and more football. Andrew then went to my brothers to make some beer for their upcoming hunting trip. I hope they save some for me!

Such a great weekend! Looking forward to hosting Nick and Emily next weekend and hear all about their honeymoon.

WEEKEND RECAP: OCTOBER 6-9, 2011

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This weekend, we played hooky from work on Friday to head to Illinois for the wedding of our two good friends Nick and Emily.

Chris and Jenny Gales, Nick and Emily at the rehearsal dinner, Alex & Kelly getting ready to go on the trolley

Highlights:
- Card games with good friends on a week night (We are such rebels!)
- Morning walks/workouts
- Chick-fil-a
- Mani/pedi
- Standing up with Emily and Nick on such an important day
- Cowboy boots stomping (aka dancing)
- Too much good food
- Drinks and merriment
- Beautiful fall foliage
- The cutest little town of Galena, IL
- Drunkly deciding to become a band of gypsy with a few of my favorite girls without the orange tans

Lowlights:
- Hangovers
- Long drives
- Stinky water
- Realizing that I won't be able to talk to Nick and Emily while they are on their honeymoon :(

I'm so thankful that this will be the last weekend we have to spend away for a wedding, but this also means we will be seeing less of our friends. We had so much fun with everyone this weekend. I love and miss them so much! Until next time... so bittersweet.

HORROR MOVIE MONTH

2011-10-06T14:54:00.001-05:00

October, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways.

Scary movies. Pumpkins. Soup. Candles that smell like pumpkins. Fall ales. Changing leaves. Apples. Sweaters. Bonfires. Cider.

And really, I could keep going. But I'm here to talk about something I have been planning for a month now. My horror movie month schedule. Yes, a schedule.

Our goal? Two horror movies a week. That's quite the feat for us! And here is what we have choosen for this year.

Requim - Ju-On - TheInnocents - The Legendof Hell House - Rosemary'sBaby - TheExorcist - The Changeling - Tale ofTwo Sisters

We tried to mix some classics in with some newer ones, but it looks like we are going back in the day for most of them. I'm really excited about Rosemary's Baby! I'm not excited for Tale of Two Sisters...

Have you seen any of these movies?Any other recommendations?

CELEB SIGHTING

2011-10-03T22:41:00.000-05:00

Did any of you see Reddit this weekend? Andrew made the front page! And with that, we read a lot of interesting/funny comments.

In those comments, it was brought to my attention that Andrew apparently looks like a few celebs. This is something that i have never really thought of before. My husband looking like a celebrity? No one has ever really mentioned it, and I hadn't thought of it on my own. But I guess Andrew has a doppelganger. Whatever that means...

Let's see if you agree.

First up, Rob McElhenney. Let me start by saying that I hate It's Always Sunny. Maybe it's because it had been really talked up. Or maybe it's because it's not funny at all. But I wish they would all stop yelling all of the time.

Next, Wil Wheaton. This is a name I hadn't hear before. And I can't say that I know who he is even after seeing his picture. I really don't see this one, but I will let you be the judge of that.

So, what's the verdict? Rob? Wil? Neither? Both?

KITTENS

2011-09-27T10:24:00.000-05:00

Just dropping in to say hi!

Is it so wrong that I want to buy them halloween costumes? We shall see! Stay tuned.

HONEYMOON: DAY 5, 6, & 7

2011-09-26T08:00:00.000-05:00

Day 5: And it's bicycle time! We chose the tandem bike for extra adventure. It was a nice hour long ride around the Stanley Park Seawall. Gorgeous.

My favorite of our seawall extravaganza: Kent Avery. A man that stacks rocks. He was phenomenal.

Onward. To Tim Horton's for lunch. (These seems to be a staple restuarant in Vancouver. And yet, they only take Mastercard.) We are now ready for a hike to the hatchery! Yah! Or so I thought...

These fish were not jumping. They were just hanging out. What a disappointment. But the hike was good and the views were extraordinary.

That evening we decided it was finally time for some sushi. FRESH Japanese Restaurant was our choice. Why did we wait so long?! If we would have found this place on the first day we were there, I'm not sure we would have eaten anything else. The beer may be expensive, but the fish is cheap. 42 pieces for $19. Get outta town! We ate it so fast that there was no time for pictures. Sorry!

Day 6: On our last morning in Vancouver, we found ourselves at a dive restaurant called Bon's Off Broadway. The service was subpar, but the food was great and the prices were right. It had a line out the door by the time we got there and I can see why. To Seattle! We got into town and headed straight for the EMP Museum. This place was cool. The Nirvana exhibit was so cool and the Avatar portion was interactive and fun.

We then went to the public market to do some window shopping. This place has everything! Crafts, food, breweries... you name it! Of course we had to stop into one of the breweries to rest and sample the local offerings. And another plus, it was also close to our dinner spot - Crab Pot! This is one of those places where they dump the food on the table and give you a wooden mallet. Awesome! I had never done anything like this before, and I'm ready to do it again!

We then headed back through the market and had to step into the original Starbucks where Andrew picked up a coffee. What can we say? We are tourists, and we love it!

Someone stick a fork in me, I'm done. Andrew and I headed to our hotel that we would call home on the last night of the honeymoon... And this place rocked! Cedarbrook Lodge was just the place we needed to round out the trip. Tea upon check-in, free ice cream and candy in the "living room" 24/7, and free breakfast and newspaper in the a.m. Thank you!

Day 7: We spent the morning sleeping, eating, and reading. Perfect. Caught some food before we headed to the airport. We returned the car, hopped a plane, and before we knew it we were home sweet home. But not before a cabbie tried to take us for all we were worth. Jerk. The kitties were happy to see us, we were happy to be home, and all was well. The End.

HONEYMOON: DAY 3 & 4

2011-09-25T09:16:00.002-05:00

Day 3: More Starbucks. It's a theme with us. We then headed to the lookout. What a view!

We also realized that we were close to the Steam Clock in Gastown. Cute area and a cool clock. We ooh'd and ahh'd, shopped, and talked about moving to Canada. Lunch! On the menu: Miura Waffle Milk Bar. This was on my must-do list. Fantastic! I want to make these at home. I want to open a restaurant and make these for everyone to enjoy. I want one right now!

Later that night, we geared up and headed to G Sports Bar and Grill for some Packers football. (Bucket of 4 Bud Bottles - $17... C'mon!)

Surprisingly full of Packers fans. Win! And I got Andrew to try Poutine Fries with me. Nom. Fries + cheese curds + gravy = genius. And the Packers won! Hooray!

Day 4: Changing things up and heading to the Granville Market for some donuts. Lee's Donuts. We were too early for the fancy ones (Blueberry, Apple, etc...) but we scored some good ones.

Took a spin around the place to pick up some munchies for lunch - olive medley, goat cheese, and bread. We then headed to the Capilano Suspension Bridge. I didn't think Andrew would handle it too well, but I was the one who wasn't a big fan.

We also checked out the cliff walk and treetop tour.

After chowing down on some yummy food, we headed back to the market to take a tour of the Granville Island Brewery. Tiny, tiny place. But good beer! That night we ate dinner at Basil Pasta Bar. Go there if you ever go to Vancouver.

HONEYMOON: DAY 1 & 2

2011-09-20T22:36:00.001-05:00

So, guess what? I'm breaking this honeymoon down into days and multiple posts. Why? Because I can. Also, because we bought a new lens and we practiced a lot! Ready for the break down? Let's go!

Andrew driving (& texting. I hate this.), Vancouver sign, buses don't run on gas, and Vancouver skyline

Day 1 - Up at the crack of dawn to catch our cab to the airport. 4:30 am to be exact. We arrive in Seattle and head out to pick up the rental. Do you homework. We didn't do the research and purchased the extra insurance because we didn't know what our actually covered. Oops! But I'm so glad we decided to drive to Vancouver. The drive was relaxing and beautiful, and I even got to nap.

Bad room, good room, & give me a $32 beer.

Then we arrived at the hotel... There was no air conditioning. I cried. And then called to ask if we could be moved to another room because the one online looked like a suite and this one looked like a college dorm room. They told me this was a free upgrade. Then they showed us our new room. Thank the Lord! Air conditioning! A soaking tub! Granite counter tops! Whoop! We hit up Morrissey's Pub for some grub and pints. With full bellies, we stopped by the corner liquor store for a 12-pack. Sticker shock! We grabbed a Granville Island Brewery - $32 for a local brewery. Wanna know how much a 24-pack of Bud Light was... $50! We were sleeping by 8:30 pm. We are so cool.

Day 2 - Oh, Starbucks. How I love you and your Pumpkin Spice Lattes. Just what we needed to start the day. It was time for an adventure. To Stanley Park!

We walked around, checked out the aquarium (I now want a pet otter), and saw the totem poles.

We refueled at the Stanley Park restaurant (it was so-so) and then decided to go shopping. But not before we hit up the local Bar and Grill for an afternoon drink. (Again, $4 for a pint... what a bargain! Not even kidding here. Also, they are not called sweet potato fries, but yam fries.) Then we bought the new lens! Let the fun and games begin!

WEEKEND RECAP: SEPT 16-18

2011-09-20T08:13:00.002-05:00

Nick and Emily came to town for a visit and we were total geeks this weekend. We spent more hours than I would like to admit playing Hero Quest (which I am now determined to find at a Goodwill) and went the MC Chris concert.

Emily is sad about the super expensive Twizzlers, Andrew watching the Packers game, MC Chris

I guess I did some non-nerd things too:

- Baked (Cream Cheese Pumpkin Muffins)

- Cooked (Taco Pasta)

- Made returns and spent a lot of money at Bed Bath & Beyond (I'm now obsessed with that store)

- Cheered on the Packers

- Played softball

- Babysat

- Took a nap

Well, hot beans! It a good weekend :) This week is going to be CRAZY busy and full of nonstop action. I will try to get the honeymoon blogs up ASAP and hopefully return to regularly scheduled programming sooner rather than later.

It's work official! New name plate!

REALITY

2011-09-15T09:54:00.000-05:00

I'm back to reality. And back to blogging! After a full week of honeymooning/vacationing/sightseeing, it's back to the grind stone. This mess was patiently waiting for me upon my return. Welcome home!

Although my Tuesday was supposed to by solely dedicated to relaxing, napping, and reading (naps are always needed after vacations), I couldn't do anything but squirm when I looked at this mess. Oh, boy. After working over 10 hours on this pig pen, it looked like I barely made headway, and I started wondering if I should have used some wedding money to hire a cleaning team for a few hours.

Last night was again spent organizing, doing dishes, and finishing the last of the vacation laundry. Geez. And the fun doesn't stop there, tonight we are doing wedding returns. But, man, I am so glad to be back. After about five days, I was ready to return. I had a lot of fun, but we packed a lot into our days in Vancouver and I was worn out! I was ready to return to a regular schedule with food that I cooked myself and my own bed. Oh, and don't forget the kitties!

I was also excited to return to work. I really missed the people I work with and all of the volunteers. I was pleasantly surprised to walk in and find this at my desk.

My coworker, Jenny, supplied what she called "wedding vomit" aka balloons, streamers, and signs. Suzie supplied the Panera bagels. Yum! What a good way to start my work week. It didn't hurt that it was Wednesday either. Three day work week, yes please!

Next up: Honeymoon recap!

6 Hours

2011-08-26T05:46:00.000-05:00

Six hours of sleep... this is so not my style. It's 5 am and I am up willingly. Without a full eight hours, you know something is on my mind.

I'm not really even stressed about the wedding. I just see my to-do list, and I want it done now! I want to relax next week. The only way that I see that happening, is if I cross some stuff off. Tonight, boutineers. Tomorrow, dress fitting and more wedding stuff.

It seems like this isn't somehting I should say, but I am ready for the wedding to be over. Past brides, is this a normal feeling? I need my real life back! I want to watch a movie without multitasking through wedding projects. I want to have time to bake. Oh, and going out for a drink/dinner with friends would be nice too.

Oh, and I just checked the 10-day forecast. 60% chance of rain. Looks like the Farmers Almanac does know what it's talking about... Is it September 6th yet? Vancouver, here I come!

Will someone please get me an Pumpkin Spice Latte? Please...

I LOVE TECHNOLOGY

2011-08-17T14:43:00.000-05:00

Today I wanted to share with you two of my latest internet crazes. Pinterest and Spotify! Have you heard of them? They are simply amazing tools that leave you wondering, "Why didn't I think of that?"

Pinterest - This website allows you to "pin" links and photos to a visual "board". You will never email yourself another link again! You can follow your friends and boards that other people have created.

Spotify - I was introduced to this awesome invention by a coworker. I could have punched Andrew in the arm when he told me he already knew about his application. Spotify allows you listen to any artist, album, and song you could ever imagine - for free! How cool is that? You just download the player and you are good to go. The catch? There are a few commercials, but even those can be avoided if you upgrade to a paid subscription. The premium subscription also allows you take you music with you on your smart phone. Win, win!

WEEKEND RECAP: AUGUST 12-14

2011-08-16T06:45:00.000-05:00

This weekend I was in Des Moines to help my good friend Emily celebrate her bach party!

Highlights:
- Meeting Courtney's daughter
- Lots of samples at the farmers market
- Lunch at Raccoon River - try the vanilla ale!
- Silly bachelorette party games
- The Iowa State Fair!
- Unicorn tattoos
- Fried mac & cheese bites, pickle wraps, cheese curds, and beer
- Dance party
- Drunk voicemails that we left for Nick and Andrew :)
- Being able to hang out with some really good friends and meeting some new ones

Lowlights:
- The cost of the beer at the fair. Crazy!
- No housekeeping - what gives?!?! Oh, and no pool either...
- Hangovers

I would say that is a pretty darn good weekend!

BE LIKE SUPERMAN

2011-08-11T12:29:00.000-05:00

While reading my August issue of Marie Claire, I came across an article about a young woman who became a bone marrow donor and saved a life. Before reading this article, I was unaware and misinformed about the bone marrow donation process. This article opened my eyes and made me want to help!

The next day, I visited http://www.getswabbed.org/ and was futher educated about the process, the side effects of donation, and how I can really make a difference. I signed-up right away. On Monday I got my swabbing package! They send you a package that contains two swab so they can collect cells and find a match.

Taking the sample wasn't hard and very painless. I asked Andrew to take a picture of me doing it for the blog, I was blissuflly unaware of how stupid I looked until I saw the pictures. But for the sake of blogging, you get to see them anyway.

As of Tuesday, they are off in the mail. I really enjoying helping others, and I think this is a great way of doing something that means so much to someone. I am crossing my fingers for a match! Also, if you would like to donate some money to help this great cause (it cost $65 to process and add a new donor to the registry), please go here!

WEEKEND RECAP: AUGUST 5-8

2011-08-10T16:46:00.000-05:00

What we did this weekend: We went to Milwaukee for Flannery and Tom's wedding. We also stayed an extra day in Des Moines to do some wedding stuff. And we finally made it home on Monday night!

Highlights:

- Four day weekend

- Hotel with friends

- Drinks with friends

- Wearing my super cute dress from Shabby Apple

- Seeing Tom and Flannery tie the knot

- Backyard reception with an awesome band and mouth-watering food

- Late night Mexican food

- H&M shopping

Lowlights:

- Lots and lots of driving

- Having to watch National Geographic's "Hogzilla" while eating breakfast. Not a good choice, Radisson!

- The rude people/drivers we encountered in Milwaukee

- No one showing up to our wedding appointments (that's a whole other post)

EXPIRED DAIRY

2011-07-31T20:33:00.000-05:00

Wanna know how close our wedding is? The cottage cheese I just bought doesn't expire until AFTER the wedding.

It will never last that long if it's in my fridge (a tub of cottage cheese bought on Monday won't see Saturday). But if it could, I could eat it the day after my wedding. My mind ~~was~~ is blown.

Everything seems to be coming together nicely. We are doing little things every day and it's adding up. I love cross stuff off the list. The little black Sharpie and I have become very good friends! Also, I'm so thankful for all of my friends and family that have stepped up to help. It's great to be able to hand a few things off so that I can just relax and enjoy this time. Which I have been!

There are a few things that we are having trouble with....

Do you remember those foil pinwheels that used to be everywhere when we were kids?

Well, they are quite hard to find now! We plan on using them in our centerpieces for the rehearsal dinner to go with our theme of outdoor bbq/fun and games. I think I will be settling for some that are a little bigger than I would like (8 inches), but I'm sure I will be the only one to notice.

Also, please let me know if you see any yellow and gray socks. They seem to be sold out everywhere! Andrew wanted something really funky, but at this point, we will settle for argyle.

Oh, and wanna see something weird? While shopping for some honeymoon attire this week, I spotted these at VS...

Who would want to wear these?!? They kinda reminds me of the diapers.

Just saying...

ASIAN CHICKEN NOODLES

2011-07-28T08:44:00.001-05:00

On Tuesday night, I decided to whip up a recipe that has been making my mouth water for days. I found it while cruising the wonderful world of Pinterest.

Just look at that picture?!?! Nom, nom, nom. If you want to follow the recipe verbatum, that's cool. But I'm going to make this simple recipe even easier. Ready?

Boil the chicken. I used frozen chicken breasts and by dumping them into boiling water, I saved myself from having to defrost. Nice! Once they are cooked all of the way through, chop it up.

Boil the pasta. There is no easy way around this one, so just do it!

Chop the veggies and nuts. Combine. Almost done!

Now for the sauce... While making my weekly grocery trip, I noticed that the price of all of the ingredients for the sauce were quickly wiping out my budget (we are talking an additional $10 people!). That's where this guy comes in...

One simple bottle. Add 1/2 cup to your mixture. Easy. Done. (I should have pictures of my finished product, but all of mine looked bad. I guess I need to work on presentation!)

The biggest downfall of this recipe. The pasta. Ok, 10 oz. Really? That's a lot of freaking pasta! If I were going to make this again, I would just use 6 oz. Trust me. Enjoy!

GOODWILL JACKPOT

2011-07-27T20:40:00.000-05:00

I was in a grumpy mood earlier tonight and thought I would hit up the local Goodwill to lift my spirit. I'm so glad I did! Check out these awesome finds!

Jodi Picoult book - $.99

Tupperware - $3.99 (the last one I needed to build a complete set!)

Sheet set - $19.99 (not pictured)

I know what you are thinking... $20 for sheets at Goodwill?!? Not just any sheets, but brand new, in-package, 820 thread count, Egyptian cotton sheets. Boo-ya! They are currently in the washing machine so I can use them tonight :)

And for my favorite purchase of the evening... an Iowa State jacket!

Once again, I bet you are thinking... she must have paid an arm and a leg for such a fine coat. Well you are in for a surprise my friend..... green tag sale.... $.99!

GO ISU! Bring on the tailgating.

I HAVE THE BEST FRIENDS

2011-07-26T22:35:00.000-05:00

Can I just say that my friends are awesome? Who else would put up with all of my wedding stress/wedding questions and still want to throw me an awesome bach party? These girls!

My only requests for the bach party: Kansas City and Embassy suites (free breakfast and booze!) They went above and beyond what I could have imagined. After meeting up at the hotel we headed to destination #1: Boulevard Brewery for a tour. Besides it being crazy hot, the tour was so awesome and the samples were even better. I have a new Boulevard fav - Hoppy Wheat. Yum!

After getting ready at the hotel, we played a few games and took some shots. They even gave me a few gifts which was completely unnecessary! The award for most creative gift: the panty parfait! The had tags attached to all of the underwear for different stages for our relationship (bride undies, blue and pink undies for when we are ready to add to our family, a skimpy pair for our first fight, etc) The most thoughtful gift: A box full of cards and letters from all of the girls. Each one was so individual and personal (I may have gotten a bit teary-eyed reading them)

After a few drinks at the managers reception, it was off to the Power and Light District for food and fun. The Drunken Fish had some fantastic sushi! And the courtyard was a lot of fun. We drank, danced, and sweated our butts off!

I couldn't have asked for a better pre-wedding celebration. I'm so thankful to have all of those girls in my life. I am so excited to share such an important day with them. I am soooo lucky!

LITTLE GOLDEN BOOK

2011-07-21T18:56:00.000-05:00

Yesterday, I can home to a wonderful surprise! Mail! Yes, the RSVPs have been streaming in...

but this is even better!

I love getting mail, and this package couldn't have been more thoughtful. My aunt saw this book while thrifting and thought of Andrew and I.

There is a special place in my heart for Little Golden Books, and thrifted ones are even better. I have even started my own little collection for when I have children.

I'm so glad to have another book to add to it! Thanks Carolyn!

5 YEARS

2011-07-13T06:40:00.001-05:00

Warning! I'm going to get a little sentimental on you. I can't help it. Last week marked 5 years that Andrew and I have been dating. He had made it seem like it was no big deal. So I didn't plan anything. No gifts, no special dinner, nothing. Besides, we are going to have a new anniversary in a few short weeks anway.

So, I was surprised to see him walk in with flowers! It was so thoughtful and cute. How lucky am I?!?!

Flowers, candy, and cards aren't the norm in our relationship. We do tell each other that we love each other every day, but sometimes you need to show each other... That is where this guy comes in.

You might remember him from our Florida vacation last year when we randomly found him in our condo. Well, ever since he has come home, he shows up in some pretty random places. We try to surprise each other and sneak him in unsuspecting places. Below is the latest hiding place. He was actually underneath of my towel. I couldn't stop laughing as I was getting out of the shower. It was just what I needed to start my day.

So, it's not romantic. I say, who cares? I see this little guy and I know that Andrew was thinking of me and it makes me smile. Isn't that all that really matters?

BRIDAL SHOWER

2011-07-12T14:43:00.000-05:00

Clockwise: Tablescape, The Newlywed Game, more gift opening, the party-throwers and myself.

On Saturday, my wonderful coworkers thew me an awesome bridal shower. I was able to help decorate on Friday afternoon, and it was exactly what I had imagined - bright, colorful, and fun. The morning started off with Andrew and I playing the Newlywed Game. Although we missed one or two, I think we did pretty well. Maybe we can apply to go on the actual show after the wedding!

Regina and Tammy had cooked up some egg bake, coffee cake, and jello cake (per my request). It was all so good, and then it was time for the presents! I got A LOT of kitchen stuff. Everyone was so thoughtful. I feel really blessed to have such great friends and coworkers/volunteers. I will have to say that my favorite gift was the nativity scene by Willow Tree. It wasn't something that wasn't on the registry, but it was something that I had wanted for quite some time! I can't wait to up it out... if I can find room!

Clockwise: Checking out gifts with the volunteers, me and my two moms, a table full of gifts, Regina and I opening gifts.

Thank you to everyone that was able to come (and even those that were there in spirit!) I really appreciate all of the gifts and support during such an important time in our lives.

BOSSYPANTS

2011-07-07T09:29:00.000-05:00

Dear Tina,

Oh Tina, say it isn't so! I didn't want to have to do this, but I just can't lie... your book sucked. But you don't care. In your book, you talked about how haters are going to hate. One chapter was even tittled, I Don't Care If You Like It. So, feel free to stop reading now.

I couldn't help but smile as I read the "reviews" on the back cover:

"Totally worth it!" - trees
"Tina Fey is an ugly, pear-shaped, overrated troll." - The internet
"Absolutely delicious!" - A guy who eats books

But that is where the fun stopped. Maybe I set myself up for disappointment... Myabe I just assumed that it was as genius as your show... Or maybe, writing books just isn't your thing.

I did laugh out loud once. Just once. "In September, my daughter was born. (For the record: epidural, vaginal delivery, did not poop on the table.)" You can always make me laugh when it comes to labor and poop. Except of course, if it happens to me - then it is def. not funny.

I can say though, that after reading each chapter, I wanted to ~~throw the book out~~ set the book aside and turn on my Netflix to 30 Rock reruns. I don't know how it is possible to have such a fantastic show (that you write for and star in - you go girl!) and not have the same comical genius in a book.

I guess the one thing I am thankful for is that I didn't pay for this book (unless you count my tax dollars as payment). It is due back at the library in a couple of days, and I'm ready to wipe my hands clean. The next time I'm looking for something comical, I'll stick with David Sedaris.

Sincerley,

Ashley M.

ENVELOPES & MAPS

2011-07-06T12:05:00.002-05:00

We finally got our invitations ordered, and they should be here soon. That means we need to kick our butt into gear and get our invitations addressed. The problem is the printer. Ours had been leaving horrible streaks, so I borrowed my parents. Their printer worked great to print the rehearsal dinner invites, but has been a nightmare to print on envelopes. I spent far too much time trying to figure this out... but it will be sooo worth it! Also, I'm concerned with the number of people who don't know how to use mail merge...

Along with the invitations, we are working on printing our wedding map. I plan on putting a map into each invitation and welcome bag. I don't want anyone getting lost or turned around! After attempting to make the map myself, I decided to hire it out. It was one less thing for me to stress about, and she did a fantastic job! I would recommend her to anyone!

My horrible attempt...

The professional map! Hooray!

Also, this last weekend, we printed the guestbook pages! Because I want something less traditional and more interesting than a standard guestbook, I saw a similar idea online and ran with it. I designed the page to include some space for drawings, advice, and memories. It's everything I could ask for in a good guestbook. I can't wait to see what people come up with.

My favorite thing to cross off the list from this last week though has to be booking the honeymoon flight! Heck yes! Although I purchases some extra Rapid Rewards point from Southwest in anticipation of the flight, we ended up going with Delta because they were soooo much cheaper. I'm talking about hundreds of dollars! Unless we wanted to fly out really late and come back super early, there was no way we could justify going with Southwest. What a disappointment... I love Southwest, but this is just unacceptable.

WEEKEND RECAP: JULY 1-4, 2011

2011-07-05T20:46:00.000-05:00

Highlights:

- Getting off work at noon on Friday and having a Monday off too!

- Going to Justin and Nicole's gender reveal party (I thought for sure it was going to be a girl, but I was wrong. It's still very exciting!) Congrats!

- Beating the boys in Euchre. We bet pies! Victory is going to taste really sweet :)

- Wildlife Safari Park - my favorite part of the weekend!

- Babysitting with Sarah

- Running my second 5k

- My new patio furniture - an early bridal shower gift from my parents. I love it!

- Spending time with Andrew without thinking/talking about wedding stuff

Lowlights:

- Feeling like an unprepared hostess (I like to cook a lot when I have guests, and that didn't happen)

- Running the 5k in the rain... this was by far the suckiest part of the weekend

- Falling off the wedding diet wagon

BLOGVERSARY

2011-06-29T09:04:00.000-05:00

My little blog turns 1 today, and I want the world to know! Wow! It's crazy to think that I have been doing this for a year!

It took me awhile to figure out what kind of blog I wanted to be, but I think I am starting to get the hang of it. This year, you have been along for the ride as I:

July- Spent time in Florida with Andrew's family & went to my family reunion

August - Moved into a new apartment & got a tattoo

September - Got engaged!

October - Watched Andrew's facial hair get out of control

November - Made a list of what I was thankful for
December - Went to my first hockey game
January - Decided on a honeymoon destination

February - Turned 25! & watched Tim on American Idol

March - Found out the kitties have serious health issues & worked through marriage prep issues

April - Addressed my quarter-life crisis & watched Andrew learn to juggle
May - Ran my first 5k & visited Vegas with my family

I'm so glad that I have this blog as a keepsake, a journal, and an outlet for whatever is going on in my life. And I so blessed to have supportive friends, family, and readers!

THANK YOU!

BOOTS

2011-06-24T07:13:00.000-05:00

It's no secret that I have been wanting a pair of cowboy boots foreeeever. That's why I was so excited to find out that my friend, Emily, wanted us to be wearing boots for her wedding. Ok! You don't have to tell me twice. That same day, I placed an order on etsy for a pair of genuine cowgirl boots. And yesterday, they came in the mail!

I have already broken them in by taking them out for drinks and they are perfect! I couldn't be more thrilled! Now if only I had a flannel shirt.... and maybe a horse.

BOOK REVIEW: MARY HIGGINS CLARK & TINA FEY

2011-06-24T07:04:00.001-05:00

Two Little Girls in Blue - Ever since I was in Jr. High, I loved reading Mary Higgins Clark. They are such easy reads and the plots have always been up to par. This is the exception. I am convinced that she was on a deadline and took the easy way out. And here are the reasons why:

- The kidnapped twins were conjoined by the finger at birth and therefore have a special connection so that they can "twin talk" and feel each other's pain even while miles apart. Right...

-There were two other couples in the story that also had tragic stories of losing twins making them suspects. Give me a break!

- One of the kidnappers just happened to be the personal driver of the mayor who volunteered to be the go-between for the family of the twins and the kidnappers. How convenient...

The pieces fit so perfectly together. Barf. This isn't a mystery! How about you just open your eyes! Or maybe just ask your daughter where her twin is (they have "twin talk", remember?) What a disappointment.

Last night, I started reading Tina Fey's new book Bossypants! After being on the waiting list at the library for ages, it is finally my turn. On the way home from picking it up from the library, I couldn't stop laughing at the "reviews" on the back cover.

Now I am 40 pages in, and I'm still not thrilled. WHAT? I know... I'm disappointed too. I refuse to give up though. I didn't give up on M.H.C. and I won't give up on T.F. either. Don't let me down! Full report soon.

SCARY SKIES

2011-06-21T15:00:00.000-05:00

Check out the view from my porch last night.

Please keep the people affected by the severe weather and flooding in your thoughts and prayers.

BRIDAL SHOWER & CAKE TOPPERS

2011-06-20T20:25:00.000-05:00

The invitations for my bridal shower are out! Finally, we can cross that off the list. I know what you are thinking... why is she sending out invitations for her own bridal shower? Well, becasue I can, I volunteered to assist my wonderful shower planners with design and dispersing the invitations. They are doing enough already! I couldn't be more thankful that they are throwing this shower for me, and that I am able to invite so many of the people that I work with everyday. It was the least I could do...

I wanted to go with bright and colorful for the bridal shower, (I even requested jello cake and punch and then we all had a good laugh about how small town that seems) and I think the invitations reflect that theme! Sidenote: Sometimes when I make this kind of stuff, I think to myself, maybe I could make some money doing this for other people?

What other crafty things have I been up to? Check out the start of my cake toppers!

Please ignore the the splatter on Andrew.

I thought for sure I would screw this up and have to call in back-ups (aka an etsy.com purchase), but they are off to a good start!I can't wait until I can add all of the little details. Now I just have to wait for this coat to dry...

I have also spent some time working on the bm gifts. I would love to show some pictures and tell you about the trials (and fails) of this venture, but that will have to wait until after they actually get them! Here is a little sneak though :)

This may be part of a fail.

Now, here is a list of things that I can't find inspiration for/make a decision on:
- Table numbers
- Seating chart display
- Ceremony programs (can I just not do these?)

This week, I plan on doing more work (aka surf the internet for ideas until my head hurts) on the ceremony programs and table numbers. I want to stick with the doily theme that we created on the place cards. What? You haven't seen them yet? Check out Andrew's handy work. Yes, I said Andrew's handy work. He stamped all of these! By himself. Score!

SUMMER BUCKET LIST

2011-06-14T13:08:00.001-05:00

Andrew and I have a bucket list for the year, but I don't think it would hurt to do one for the summer too! There is nothing wrong with wanteing to have fun and I just love making lists.

1. Go to a drive-in theatre - Doesn't this sound like the perfect summer activity?!?! There is one that isn't far from Andrew's parents house, but maybe I can find one a little closer to Omaha.

2. Yoga Rocks the Park - Doing yoga outside with a bunch of strangers? Sign me up! If you haven't heard anything about it, check out the website. Omaha just went up on the cool-o-meter.

3. Taco Ride - This was on my bucket list last year and it fell through the cracks. Maybe Andrew will get the bike that is on our wedding registry and we can finally make this little dream come true.

Only three things? Yup, only three things. The calendar is already packed with weddings, parties, and other fun events so we don't want to over do it!

What is on your summer bucket list?

WEEKEND RECAP: JUNE 3-6, 2011

2011-06-07T06:15:00.000-05:00

Highlights:

- Surprising Emily for her 25th b-day (She had no idea!)

- Racoon River Brewery - really good food

- Getting chairs reserved for the wedding ceremony

- Watching a new show "Game of Thrones" (If you aren't watching this, you should be)

- Iowa Cubs game - they won!

- Brunching with Mallory

- Getting back to Omaha early enough to get stuff done

Lowlights:

- Not being able to do much at my dress fitting. They can only cut my dress once....

- $8 beers at the baseball game.

- Emily being hung over all weekend. You can't even be mad though! She had no idea we would be there.

- Having to leave DM. I love that city.

Now for the best story of the weekend. Drum roll, please. I met Curtis Stone! Yes, the Curtis Stone from "Take Home Chef." I may or may not have acted like a giddy teen after meeting him. Just maybe... Here is how is all started.

Ashley: (sarcastically) Hey look, it's Curtis Stone.

Sarah H.: No, I think that actually is Curtis Stone.

Ashley: No, it's not.

Sarah: (yells) Hey, Curtis!

And then he waved at us! We followed him into Fong's Pizza, introduced ourselves, and recommended the crab ragoon pizza. It was swell. :)

PANDA CAKE POPS

2011-06-04T10:23:00.001-05:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY EMILY! I am not posting this until today, because they were for Emily's surprise birthday party yesterday. So Emily, were you surprised?!?! I was surprised at how hard it is to make cake pops. Holy cow.

From having them fall apart while dipping, to the edible marker not writing on the candy coating, these puppies (errr... pandas?) were a pain in my rear.

So like I said before, the edible marker was a complete fail. To top it off, there were no candy writers (yes, these are different than edible marker, who knew?) to be found within 25 miles (I might be exaggerating) of 68154. So I substituted with black dye that I put into my regular candy coating. DON'T DO THIS. It's harder than heck. I had to use a toothpick to try and work out the eyes and mouth. Yikes.

In the end, some of them turned out better (see above) than others (see below). But they did look pretty darn cute all together. I think next time I will try to start with something a little simplier. And if you were wondering, there is no way in h--- that I will be making cake pops for the wedding.

Now, if we could please have a moment of silence for the cake pops that didn't see the light of day. I call this masterpeice "cake pop graveyard." It was a collection plate of every cake pop that fell apart. All of them except for the one sticking straight up. I didn't have any styrofoam left for this one to dry in so I substitued with the graveyard. Don't worry, it was just Andrew's cake pop.

If you plan on making cake pops in the future, please let me know so I can pray for you in advance.

THE ART OF RACING IN THE RAIN

2011-06-01T21:27:00.000-05:00

Just look at that cover! How can you not already be in love?!?!

I had never actually read anything about this book (plot, reviews, etc.) but I did know it was on the best sellers list. You just can't go wrong, am I right? And boy was I surprised when the voice of the narrator was actually the dog. You always wonder what your pets are thinking (and in my case, sometimes even talk for them), and through this book you now have the inside point-of-view. Throughout the book he mentions that all he has are his gestures, and he uses them wisely. He stands by his owner through thick and thin, he lets him know when his owner does something he doesn't like, and he never lets his owner quit.

This books takes you on the journey of a family and their dog as they experience loss, judgement, and triumph. Basically everything you could ever ask for in a book! By the end of this book, I was very attached to this fictional dog, and there were a lot of tears. I'm such a sap when it comes to pets.

These are some of the bookmarks I got while wondering around in Vegas and daydreaming of going to LOVE show. The next time we are there, the Beatles show is a must.

I bought this bookmark a couple of weeks ago. This verse has had a lot of meaning for me lately. Plus, it's cute.

So, enough about bookmarks. What book should I read next? I really can't wait to read Tina Fey's new book (too bad the waiting list is so long at the lib). What are you currently reading?

WEEKEND RECAP: MAY 27 - 30

2011-05-30T10:53:00.000-05:00

I hope everyone is enjoying/enjoyed their Memorial Day weekend. Although my weekend isn't quite over yet, I thought I would give you an update.

Our original plan for the weekend was to go to Galesburg to visit Andrew's family. But after a mid-week wedding freak out, I thought it would be best if I stayed behind to get some stuff done. So my weekend has included a lot of cleaning (it needed to happen) and random wedding stuff.

The kitties kept me entertained and provided excellent company this weekend.

Saturday: One of these wedding tasks left me walking around the mall wondering why all women's intimates (lingerie, bras, shape-wear) don't come in my size, are so freaking expensive, or just plain ugly. Other than that, I got a bookcase from John and Amanda. Thanks guys! And I was finally able to put their book in their proper place! Color coded nonetheless. Jealous? You should be.

Yesterday, I went to my parents house with my grandpa. On the way there, we stopped at the cemetery where my grandma and uncle are buried. It was nice to be able to visit their sites and pay our respects. The drive after the cemetery is another story. We got lost. With no GPS, no sun, and no signs to point us in the right direction, we were lost for the better part of an hour driving around SW Iowa. I think I'm going to buy a compass until I can afford an iPhone. Geez...

The fun didn't stop there! I found out my dad bought a new motorcycle! How cool is that? We wanted to look up more info about it online... but the computer had a virus. I then spent much of the afternoon uninstalling unnecessary games and programs from there computer. What a headache!

He says it might be too big for me.. and 800 lb motorcycle ain't got nothing on me!

After that, I needed to get started on my wedding rehearsal dress. Wrong pattern size. But how cute is this dress?!? Let's hope I can finish it on time and without too many mistakes. (That's where my mom comes in. She is pretty awesome.)

Ok, Sunday. You win! I then headed home and relaxed for the rest of the evening, missing my friend's grill out and forgetting the dip I made for their party on the counter. Gross...

Monday: I have already went for a walk, written this blog post, and later today I am meeting with someone for a potential part-time job opportunity! Go me! And the best part about today, Andrew comes home! Yah!

VEGAS 2011

2011-05-27T20:28:00.000-05:00

Day 1: Vacation time! After getting off the plane, renting our car, and checking into the place, it was time to explore. My first purchase, t-shirts from H&M. I didn't have much shopping time or I would have made a much bigger dent in my wallet. Lots and lots of walking up and down the strip. It ended with dinner at the Harley Davidson restaurant. Our waitress was awesome! If I could remember her name, I would write them a letter.

Day 2: Hoover Dam day! This was my favorite thing that we saw! Super cool stuff. Next time you go to Vegas, add this to your must-see list. But first, a stop by the Pawn Shop from the show Pawn Stars. My mom bought a ring from there! Then to fill our bellies with In & Out Burger. Why don't we have these in NE? WHY? Ok, now time for Hoover Dam! And on the way back, a stop at Sam's Town for some bottomless margs and money winning on the roulette table. Boo-ya! Can you tell that Tuesday was my fav day?

Day 3: We spent the day riding the monorail, trying to find everyone, looking at lions (MGM), going to the salon (pedi = awesome!), and finally going out for a proper night on the town! Fremont Street, here we come! Fun, fun, fun! Everyone had too many drinks, and I won money! This is what Vegas is all about, right?!?! (Can we all agree that my point and shoot takes shitty pictures? Ugh)

Day 4: We were all getting tired of each other and Vegas. We didn't plan a lot for the day, but a few of us did make sure to catch a ride on the gondolas in the Venetian. Interesting story: Our gondola host had lived in Omaha for a number of years while stationed at Offutt Air Force Base. While living here, he worked at Lansky's Pizza. And now you know the rest of the story.

That night we grilled out, swam, and saw the super cheesy Sirens of TI show. Next time you are in Vegas, don't go to this. Later, I played some more Roulette, and Andrew and I turned in early after picking up our last late night meal in Vegas.

Day 5: Ok, now we are really tired and ready to go home. Everyone is complaining, and our feet hurt. Nevertheless, we hit up M&M World (I don't recommend this either) and at lunch at Earl of Sandwich (YUM!) Finally, time to go home! YAH!

WEDDING STRESS

2011-05-26T15:58:00.000-05:00

I'm stressed. What more can I say besides that? I have a million things running through my head. All of the details that I need to work on.... The dress fittings that haven't happened yet.... The things we still need to buy.... Oh dear.

Everyone tells me that this stress is worth it in the end. And I can't quit now. I have a vision how things are supposed to look (white, yellow, and gray all over!) and how I want people to feel (welcomed, excited, happy, tipsy, etc.) I can't just give that up.

It doesn't help that Andrew is less than thrilled to help out. Yes, he will begrudgingly go with me to the store, but he doesn't see my vision. I guess I need more pictures.

I need some motivation. I need to see some results! With only 100 days until wed-day, I need to kick it into high gear! Here is my list...

Now if every blog reader takes one thing off of my hands, this will be done in no time! Kidding! Or am I?

Update: Since writing this post, I have gotten stuff done! I have crossed a number of things off the list and couldn't be more excited about it. One of the item was the cake decoration.

Last night, I sent our caterer a picture of what we want the cake to look like. How perfect is this?!?

We also ordered the groomsmen gifts (which are awesome!), but I can't post a picture here :) I hope to have more updates and projects posted soon! Hooray!

WEEKEND RECAP: MAY 13 - 15

2011-05-16T22:16:00.000-05:00

Highlights:

- Girls Night Out

- Craigslist finds

- Beer tasting at Brix

- The Old Market - especially the Candy Shoppe

- SNL

- Wheatfields two weeks in a row

- The zoo!

- Trader Joe's

- Dinner party (sort of?)

- Spending lots of time with Sarah K!

Lowlights:

- Having one too many drinks

EXTREME COUPONING

2011-05-16T21:47:00.000-05:00

Tonight, I attempted my first extreme couponing trip. I must say that I was inspired by the recent show on TLC, but I have always been a coupon believer. I don't think you should ever pay full price for anything! If there is a deal out there, I will find it. I have even been known to go back to a store with receipt-in-hand to get a refund on previous purchase that was discounted further. And now, I am taking it one step further... to the grocery store!

Before I even attempted this trip, I did some homework. I already knew that at Target you could use one Target coupon and one manufacturer coupon. Then I began following a savvy shopper blog, www.krazycouponlady.com. Man, does she know her deals. With that knowledge, I was ready to shop.

Andrew was insanely embarrassed. He was even more embarrassed when I bought not one, but two 35 lb tubs of kitty litter. Andrew said "Omg, now they are going to think you are a crazy coupon lady and a crazy cat lady." Obviously, I didn't care. Because I bought two, I scored a free $5 gift card to Target for a future purchase. Go me!

So here is my loot....

Bertolli - $1.49/jar

Chex Mix - $1.08/bag

Frozen Veg - $.90/bag

Cat Litter - $9.49/tub (not pictured)

Special K - I used 2 coupons, but also was supposed to get one free. Because some of the coupons didn't match up on the receipt with the corresponding item, there is a lump of coupons taken off at the end and I can't remember how they added up. This might have been my one flub of the night.

Nivea Lotion - $1.04

NYC Nail Polish - $.52

Old Spice Body Wash - $1.08 (2-pack, on clearance!)

Old Spice Deodorant - $3.24

People Mag - $2.99

It is things like the Special K that remind me that I am still a beginner and this is going to take some work. I'm proud of what I did today and how much I saved, but I still have a long way to go! I will take all of the advice I can get at this point. So let me hear it if you have any ideas.

ZUCCHINI BAKE

2011-05-14T09:08:00.000-05:00

It's been far too long since I have actually used a cookbook. And there is no good reason for it! I love all of the Gooseberry Patch cookbooks and this one had just been collecting dust. Well, not any more! I was searching for a recipe that was off the beaten path, and I stumbled upon this one. It's not often that I make meatless meals, but this one looked to interesting to pass up.

Zucchini Casserole

10 zucchini sliced
2 c. shredded mozz cheese
7 oz. can diced green chilis
2 c. shredded ched chesse
3/4 c. biscuit baking mix
1/2 c. milk
1 egg
grated Parm cheese

Lightly oil a 13"x9" baking dish and layer as follows: 1/3 of the zucchini slices, mozz cheese, chilies, 1/3 zucchini slices, ched cheese, remaining zucchini. - The only change that I made here was to split the chilies and use them on both layers. And if you have more on hand, use it! It won't be too spicy, I promise. Oh, and I didn't use all of my zucchini. I was just sick of cutting them....

Combine biscuit baking mix, milk, and egg. Spread over top of casserole. - Ummm.... I don't think this was enough. But then again, maybe was supposed to be super thin and not cover the entire thing? Either way, I didn't see the point of it. Feel free to skip this step.

Before biscuit mix. Look at those killer slices!

Sprinkle with Parm cheese and bake at 350 degrees for one hour until golden. Serves 6 to 8. - After adding four cups of cheese, I decided that that was enough cheese for one meal and decided to cut the Parm. (Does anyone else love to abbreviate their cheeses?)

This seemed like a great comfort food. I think it would freeze well too! Just freeze before you bake! Andrew gave this dish a 7 out of 10. I would go with 7.5 because it worked great as lunch leftovers. Enjoy!

I DID IT!

2011-05-10T07:41:00.002-05:00

I ran my first 5k last week, and I wasn't the last one to finish! Let's start from the beginning.

I was so nervous. Before I even left work, I was sweating. I arrived about 15 mins before the race started, and I was so glad that Andrew was there to calm my nerves and cheer me on. After saying a quick goodbye to him, we were herded to the trail where the race would begin. I tried to place myself near the back to try and stay out of the way of the other faster runners. Before I knew it, we were off and running.

Andrew wouldn't stop taking pictures of me!
I think I was telling him to stop in this one.

Our route took us south down the Keystone trail, with a turnaround at about Pacific Street. I loved the beginning of the race. After about half a mile, I found my pace and was encouraged by the many other runners surrounding me. It wasn't until the turnaround point that I hit my wall. I became really tired and more discouraged as the crowd started to thin out.

Laughing again at my personal photographer.

The rest of the way back was a mix of walk/run, and a lot of negative thoughts.I thought about how I wasn't a runner and this def. wasn't my thing. I thought about how I would never do this again, and about how I just wanted to walk the rest of the way. All of that changed as soon as I saw the bridge. I remembered that the bridge we had crossed on the way down wasn't so far from the finish. It was also the point where there were people cheering to encourage the runners to the finish. It was just the kick I needed to finish the race on a good note.

Do I really look like that when I run? Let's work on that.

As soon as I saw the time on the clock, I was so relieved. I was done! And I did it faster than I had in any of my practice runs. As soon as I finished, I felt great! I was so glad that I did it, and I was really proud of my time.

Go me!

I am already ready to run another one! And I think next time, Andrew and Sarah are going to be joining me. I can't wait!

WEEKEND RECAP: MAY 6 - 8

2011-05-09T20:39:00.000-05:00

Clockwise from top right: Me, Ellen, and Kelli at the farmers market; Mom and Chris playing ladder golf; Deakin and I napping; Kelli and I; Lisa; Andrew holding Deakin and Deakin not crying.

Highlights:

Grilling and drinking on the balcony

Season 2 of Breaking Bad

Meeting Kelli and Ellen at the farmers market

Shopping (I'm starting to use coupons to get some killer deals!)

Risotto (My first time making it)

Watching Field of Dreams with Andrew (He had never seen it!)

Family dinner for Mother's Day

Seeing and spending time with Deakin

Lawn games

Lowlights:

Eating the entire loaf of bread from the farmers market in one day...

Not using my coupons as wisely as I could have

Missing meeting Jeff Foxworthy in the Old Market (Kelli and Ellen saw them right after I left!)

5 THINGS - MOTHER'S DAY

2011-05-08T10:17:00.000-05:00

Well, I'm def. not a mom, but I do like gifts. Here is a list of the things I would be hoping for if I was a mom this Mother's Day.

1. iPhone cover - I don't have an iPhone yet, but this is the cover I'm going to buy when I get one.

2. Lunch at Mark's Bistro - This restaurant is one of my favorites, and it's been too long...

3. A pedicure - What mom (or any women) doesn't to be pampered?

4. Flowers - *This is just a classic.

5. Sandals - Perfect accessory to accompany your latest pedicure.

*Just in case you were wondering, peonies are my favorite. Hint, hint.

WEDDING UPDATE!

2011-05-04T07:31:00.000-05:00

Oh my! So much wedding stuff getting accomplished. I'm so proud of us and our savvy, money-saving ways. What did we do you ask? Check it!

Toasting glasses: Done! I picked these gems up at Goodwill unused and still in the box for $4. Four glasses for $4. Score! Individually, they would have cost $20 from Things Remembered. We did have them engraved there though, but it saved a boat-load by being thrifty.

Andrew's attire: Done! Sneak preview? Ok!

My stud muffin!

A normal tux rental would have cost about $150. Today, we picked up pants and a vest for $73 - Kenneth Cole nonetheless. He will add new shoes, tie, and white shirt that will bring the total to about the same as the rental. But with this version, he gets to keep it. Nice!

More pictures and details to come. I've got some projects in the works.

Now, let's talk about some other things. Here are a couple of things that will not be happening at my wedding...

Receiving line. Does anyone else hate receiving lines as much as I do? They are awkward and slow. If you were looking forward to this, too bad. Instead, we will be doing table toasts. We will be greeting guests at their tables during the dinner hour. I don't have all of the details worked out yet, but it's going to be pretty cool.

Garter toss. I find this kind of disgusting. First of all, no one should be sticking their head under my dress (even my husband). Not to mention that this takes place in front of your grandparents and ~~future~~ in-laws. Gross. Who thought this up anyway? I can think of nothing more unladylike. Save it for the honeymoon.

Hopefully, I will have much more to report next time. Oh, and the date of my shower has been set... July 9!

MAY GOALS

2011-05-02T10:05:00.000-05:00

1. Go to church twice this month
2. Look into my retirement funds.
3. Get involved.

I feel like a huge lame-o. I didn't accomplish anything on my list for April goals and it really bums me out. Really, I have no one to blame but myself. I had opportunities and time, and I didn't take advantage of either of them. I feel like I really let myself down. Bummer.

In attempt to cheer myself up, here is a list of things I did accomplish:
1. Ummmmm

Ok, crap. Well, that sucks. Yes, I started somethings (making my first dress, a new book, etc.), but I didn't follow through. Not cool, Ashley. Not cool. What happened to 2011 kicking ass? Well, I'm giving April the middle finger and moving on.

May Goals
1. Kick ass
2. Take names

Rant, over.

NERVES

2011-04-28T21:13:00.000-05:00

Remember those wedding nightmares I had been talking about? The ones where I didn't have a wedding dress and we didn't have wedding bands and it was on a beach and no one came.... Well, forget those! Now, its 5k nightmares.

In my dream last night, I was running the 5k around a very small track with a ton of other people. Because I was the last one to finish, they had already changed into costumes (?!?) and we starting to party on the track thus blocking me from finishing the race. Not that it mattered, because I was so slow that they stopped keeping track of time before I was even done!

Now I know I'm slow, but not that slow! Oh geez... I will have to do another trial run this weekend to calm my nerves. But why am I even nervous? I'm not running this for time. I'm running the 5k to prove to myself that with hard work, I can do it! The same thing happened before RAGBRAI, and I didn't let that slow me down. (470+ miles ain't got nothing on me!)

While you are sipping on your margs and Coronas on May 5, don't forget to think of my huffing and puffing through my 5k. Who knows? Maybe I will even enjoy it so much I will want to try something bigger and badder (I'm thinking Disney Princess Half Marathon! Who doesn't want a tiara-shaped medal?!)

EASY STROGANOFF

2011-04-26T12:48:00.000-05:00

I think I remember Andrew saying one time that stroganoff was one of his favorite meals... either way, he better eat it.

Stroganoff
1 pound ground beef
1/2 cup chopped onion
1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon paprika
1 (10.75 ounce) can condensed cream of mushroom soup
1 cup sour cream
8 ounces macaroni

Directions
In a large skillet over medium heat, saute the meat and onions until the meat is browned and the onion is tender. - Try not to cry. Those onions are killer! One tip I recently learned... breathe through your mouth. It actually wasn't too bad once I remembered to actually do this.

Cook the egg noodles according to package directions. - Now, let me tell you about my spoon. Listen to your mothers. Never buy wooden utensils unless they are carved out of a solid piece of wood. The only upside to this misfortune is that it easily fit into the mushroom can and is very good at scrapping the inside.

Stir in the flour, salt and paprika. Then add the mushroom soup, mix well and cook, uncovered, for 20 minutes. - Easy, peasy.

Reduce heat to low and add the sour cream, stirring well and allowing to heat through. Cover and set this mixture aside. - At this point, go back and read the ingredients. No where in the recipe does it say to actually double the amount of sour cream. Oops. The good news: I had enough ingredients on hand to make it a double batch. Now I can freeze the half of it and heat it up some other time. On that note, let's just say I planned to do that.

Drain the water from the noodles and pour the meat mixture over the noodles. - Nom, nom, nom.

WEEKEND RECAP: APRIL 15-17 & 22-25, 2011

2011-04-25T19:22:00.000-05:00

April 15-17 Highlights:

- Going to the Conduits concert at the Slowdown (Icky Blossoms were good too!)

- Seeing my cousin, Jenna, for the first time in probably 15+ years

- Getting to hang out with Katie T. and meeting her ultra-cute nephew, Lucca

- Starting work on my first dress (The first piece of clothing I will make by myself!)

- Naps

- Bowling with Czech Club even though I lost. every. single. time.

- Pop's 92nd birthday party

- Getting really, really excited about our upcoming Las Vegas trip!

- Shopping spree!

Lowlights:

- The bowling alley not letting me buy the awesome bowling ball I used. Yes, I asked.
- Having to take my car in to the car doctor. The good news is that they called this morning to let me know that it was nothing major, my tire was just about to fall off. No biggie.

- Not having enough time (or a car) on Sunday to go grocery shopping AND make Pops cookies for his birthday

April 22-25 Highlights:
- Hanging with my friends in Ames
- Eating lots of yummy cake
- Homestyle Chinese
- Trying on MY wedding dress! (Oh, it felt so good!)
- Taking a long nap - a reoccurring theme
- Easter with the fam
-Having Monday off of work
- Watching the Time Traveler's Wife (good movie!)

Lowlights:
- Not feeling well after eating Homestyle Chinese
- Not seeing Tim in concert
- Missing my bro, his wife, Pops, and Tom at Easter
- Forgetting my Easter basket at my parents house

5 GUILTY PLEASURES

2011-04-22T07:32:00.000-05:00

Today as I was contemplating getting myself a nice, warm latte from Scooters, I realized that I couldn't make up my mind because I felt so guilty about it. This is ridiculous. I brown-bag my lunch everyday. Why should I feel guilty about treating myself to coffee That got me thinking about my other guilty pleasures...

1. Starbucks/Scooters/etc - I crave this stuff daily. I limit myself though because I can't justify spending $4/daily on the stuff. Alternative: McDonald's - There iced coffee isn't bad!

2. Celebrity Magazines - I love reading all of the gossip, fashion tips, and "fun facts." Although I rarely buy them, I do have acceptions including vacation (just another reason I can't wait for Vegas!) I always feel like I hit jackpot when I get to browse one in a doctor's office free of charge. Alternative: Sucking up as much celeb gossip as I can while I make Andrew wait in line to pay for stuff. He hates this and even talked about getting me a subscription so I would stop.

3. Alcohol - Let me clarify, I only feel guilty about this during the week. Some days I just want to come home after a long day and drink a beer without the guilt. Alternative: Take drinks of Andrew's beer.

4. Mani/Pedi - I always think about what else I could be using mani/pedi money for. That's why this one happens close to never. Alternative: I cheap bottle of new nail polish. This week's color: mint green.

5. Taking unplanned time off - I often have the feeling that if I'm not doing something, I'm doing something wrong. This thought process is just wrong. I took Tuesday off of work. I was extremely tired, it was raining, I had a headache, and was in a terrible mood. I needed a day off, but I felt guilty about it. Alternative: No real alternative. Everyone needs time off. Bummer.

ANDREW JUGGLES

2011-04-14T22:13:00.000-05:00

After playing with the cats for a little bit, Andrew wanted to take the poof balls (aka decorations Ashley was working on for the wedding) and try to juggle. It took him a minute to learn that he had to do more than just throw one up at a time, but after 20 mins, he kinda got the hang of it. Sort of. Listen for the rhythmic breathing!

MID-LIFE CRISIS

2011-04-14T16:29:00.000-05:00

Who knew it could happen to me? I thought it was just something that John Mayer sang about. Nope. It hit me the other day while at Jenny's bachelorette party. What the h--- is going on?

I was sitting with my friend Sarah watching one of Jenny's friends chat it up with a cute boy across the bar when I realized that will never be me again. I'm 25 years old, and I'm embarking on the biggest commitment of my life - marriage. Never again will I attempt to get free drinks from cute boys. There will be no more random make-outs. (Yes, I did that. And it was fun!) What happened? Is this the point where I pinch myself and wake up from this crazy dream called life?

Don't get me wrong... I'm soooo happy to be marrying Andrew. It's truly hard to imagine him not being in my life. I think this is what Mallory's older and much wiser sister calls melancholy (although, after looking it up, I'm going to have to say nostalgia).

Oh, and don't think that this just applies to relationships. Here are a few other areas that are freaking me out/frustrating/sad: (list taken and adapted from wikipedia, don't judge)

- confronting one's own mortality and the mortality of others

- insecurity regarding present accomplishments

- re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships

- nostalgia for university, college, high school, middle school or elementary school life

- tendency to hold stronger opinions

- loss of closeness to high school and college friends

- financially-rooted stress (overwhelming college loans, unexpectedly high cost of living)

- desire to have children

- a sense that others are doing better than oneself

What's the solution? I don't know. Time, maybe? I just feel like I'm stuck in this really weird time in my life right now. I know it will pass and everything in that list will change. Until that time, Sarah and I, in our inhibited state, decided to go back in time and relive younger years by flashing someone?!?! I'm so glad we didn't do that.

Can I get a raise of hands for others who feel this way? Please tell me I'm not the only one.

BOOK REVIEW: THE TIME TRAVELER'S WIFE

2011-04-12T21:12:00.000-05:00

Let me start by saying how thankful I am to everyone and anyone willing to get through a tough start to a book. Without you, I would have given up long ago. Not only was the beginning of this book confusing and dull, I didn't see a lot of character development and it was hard to relate. But because of the people out there willing to stick it out and let me know that it actually was a good book, I made it!

Now, the storyline of the book is really not my thing. Time traveling and romance rarely come together, and the thought of it didn't quite make sense. But the author did it so well. In the end, it wasn't about the time travel at all. The love story between the main characters overshadows any odd scenarios that can come up when one person is traveling through time.

If you ask most people they will tell you that I am not a fan of the mushy, chick-oriented, sappy, love crap. I find it over-the-top and completely unrealistic. Let's get real. Although this book is far from anything real (ummm time travel?), the story of their relationship, their struggles, and their strong bond is very believable.

It made me wonder what I would do without Andrew, and I had to stop reading more than a few times when the book made me really think about a life without the love of my life. Before I get all emotional on you, I will just end by saying that this book has made the list of favorites. Now I just hope the movie can live up to the book. Here goes nothing!

WEEKEND RECAP: APRIL 7-10, 2011

2011-04-11T20:25:00.000-05:00

Highlights:

- Zombies v. Plants on the iPhone. I'm addicted.

- Singing karaoke with the other bridesmaids at Jenny's bach party

- Erin's crazy patron shot

- A crazy good reuben at Belguim Village Inn in Moline. Take my word for it... just get the rueben!

- Seeing all of the family! I love it when everyone can get together

- Jenny and Chris getting married

- Surprise Elvis performance at the reception

- Late nights with good friends

- Finally coming home :)

- Breaking Bad. I think I'm really going to like this show.

Lowlights:

- Having to say goodbye to everyone until next time...

- Not taking nearly enough pictures

FLASHBACK FRIDAY: APRIL WEDDINGS

2011-04-08T08:54:00.001-05:00

In honor of Jenny and Chris's wedding this weekend, I wanted to take a look back at the last two years of April weddings. This month my brother, Chris, and his wife, Lisa, will celebrate 2 years.

The happy couple on the party bus after the wedding

Lin and I at the rehearsal dinner

And this weekend, Sarah and Ryan H. will celebrate 1 year!

The wedding party

Emily and I had matching dresses!

I can't wait to add another awesome wedding to my list. Congrats Jenny and Chris!

APRIL GOALS

2011-04-06T13:07:00.002-05:00

I thought maybe I should post this blog before April escapes just like March. I give myself at 60% on my March goals. It may not be perfect, but it's better than 50%!

1. ~~Watch all of the Harry Potter films~~ - I did it. ALL OF THEM! Go me! I'm so ready for the last movie. I think I should dress up, no?

2. Exercise 3 or more times a week - Well, I only did this once. Every other week was just two times, but I am able to run for a lot longer than I could at the beginning of the month!

3. Write 2 letters a week - I plan on getting some Easter cards in the mail to make up for this. I will give myself some credit on the cards I sent through email though!

April!

1. Go to church twice this month - This shouldn't be too hard with Easter right around the corner. I'm thinking with a goal like this I should get a new Easter dress. Maybe?

2. Look into my retirement funds. - I have been putting this off for way too long. Between my current job and previous job, I have not done my part in being a responsible future retiree. Time to get organized!

3. Get involved. - I have been thinking about joining something. Too general? Ok... how about a book club? Or a young professionals group? Or a Bible study? Whatever it is, it's happening this month.

5 THINGS: RANTS

2011-04-05T15:33:00.000-05:00

Oh yeah, I got my hair done this weekend! That should have been a highlight on my weekend list. Oops.

1. Please hold the door for others. If I'm just a few steps behind you, and you don't bother to hold the door, we will not be on good terms that day. And if it's raining/snowing/etc..., I might not talk to you for a week.

2. !!!!!!!!!! - This is not a good way to end a sentence. Neither is this ............. or this ???????????? Please try to keep your punctuation limited to just one. Ok? Thanks.

3. Do not talk on your cell phone when you are checking out. It's rude. You may not have any idea how rude you are being unless your have either been a cashier or you have been behind someone that has done this. I will give you the stink eye.

4. Just because you hang balls from the back of your truck does not make you cool. Is that really the image you want to present to people you don't even know? I hope the answer is no. Help me, help you. Grow up.

5. Don't say you don't like/hate something you haven't tried. If everyone took on that same attitude, the world would be terrible place. Give it a try, or shut up.

Knock it off! Any other pet peeves that I can add to the list? Feel free to share below.

WEEKEND UPDATE: APRIL 1 - 3

2011-04-04T21:25:00.000-05:00

Highlights:

- Andrew hanging with me for a bit while I babysat

- Orsi's Pizza

- Breakfast Bacon Cookies - YUMMM!

- A killer run with an improved mile time

- A date day with Andrew: Ingredient Restaurant (I give it a 6 out of 10), Red Mango (Cin Toast Crunch, jelly beans, cheesecake, cookie dough, kiwi, frosted cookie, Fruiti Pebbles), and Harry Potter Deathly Hollows

- Finding some metal pails for rehearsal dinner decor - Good find Mom!

- Family dinner

- My mom successfully altering my bm dress for Jenny's wedding

Lowlights:

- Finding the perfect chairs for the dining room table on clearance at Target and not having the money to buy them....

- Eating so much good food it hurt

- Andrew getting Monday off and I had to go to work

In other news, Jenny (Andrew's sister) gets married on Saturday! Her bach party in on Thursday, and I can't wait. It's going to be one fun weekend!

MONSTER BURGER

2011-03-31T20:47:00.000-05:00

After hearing all about "the most amazing burger I have ever had" from Mallory. I thought I would try to reconstruct it home because as far as I know, there isn't a restaurant in Omaha that sells something like this. My ingredients are pictured in order that they were stacked on the bun...

Beef, fried egg, bacon, peanut butter bun. I didn't skimp on anything. Full fat, thick cut bacon and the fattiest beef that came in a tube. Ok.... so I used a whole wheat bun. It felt almost sinful making this. Grease, grease, grease! But boy, was it worth it.

Check that out! Nom, nom, nom!

It was fantastic, but I don't think it was as good as it could have been because it wasn't made by someone else. Food is always better when someone else makes is for me ;) I give it a 7 out of 10. Andrew thinks it deserves a 9 out of 10, and his face says it all!

Tonight I also: hit up Joann's, watched some Police Women on TLC, and read my book. Success!

BAD/GOOD MORNING

2011-03-29T17:35:00.000-05:00

After this morning, I thought today was going to be a dud.

I could only half-sleep after 5am.
I didn't have a towel when I got out of the shower.
I am worried about how we are going to pay for the wedding/honeymoon/my wedding dress.
I haven't lost any weight since last week.
I didn't know when I would be able to go to Ames/DM to do wedding stuff.
Not a good morning.

And then, I came to work! Before 9am, my day turned around!

I was asked to babysit this Friday night!
I found out my cousin, Tim, would be playing a show in Ames on April 22.
April 23 was one of the dates that was available for us to do a cake tasting!
Sarah was already planning on going to Ames that weekend!
And I decided that I want to start doing the Insanity workout.
Hot dog!

I brewed myself a cup of carmel coffee and felt a sense of relief. What a good day it is turning out to be!

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks inall circumstances for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

THOUGHTS

2011-03-25T07:25:00.000-05:00

Thoughts for the week:

I really don't like Usher.
What is an appropriate number of mimosas to have before your wedding?
It is never too early for candy.
Why would you ever choose glossy over matte?
I kind of miss the nickname AJ.
I wish our mailmen of the church were cuter.
I hope we registered for a rolling pin.

MARRIAGE PREP

2011-03-24T14:31:00.000-05:00

Andrew and I are about halfway done with our marriage preparation class! Because Andrew is Agnostic and his friend is marrying us instead of a pastor, I found a counselor who is certified to do marriage preparation. How cool is that? I think Andrew was a little hesitant at first, but we are both really comfortable with our counselor, Bob.

On our scoring list, we scored the lowest on religion. We both had concerns about what the other person is comfortable with and how we will raise our children. Going through this section actually went pretty well. We agreed on everything after we had talked about it. Just how marriage counseling should go.

This week, we hit our first hiccup. We got so into the discussion that I can't even remember what the statement was! That's so awful.... Are you ready to hear about what we can't agree on? Vacations.

That's right. Not money, not children. Nope. It was about vacations! This is just silly. More specifically, Andrew likes to "fly by the seat of his pants" on vacations. I, on the other hand, want a plan. I have places to go, things to see, and food to eat. If I wanted to just lounge around, I would lock myself in my apartment. Now don't get me wrong, I want to kick back and relax too. But I feel like that is something you can plan to do too!

Our homework assignment (yes, it was so bad that he gave us homework!), is to try and come up with a plan for our honeymoon that both of us can agree on. Ugh, I think I'm going to need help on this one.

After asking my trusty friend Mal what pictures could go with a marriage prep blog, she suggested the movie "License to Wed". Has anyone else seen this? After hearing that John Krasinski was it in, Andrew might have to sit through this one.

ST. PAT'S DAY & WEEKEND: MARCH 18-20, 2011

2011-03-22T17:36:00.000-05:00

St. Pat's Day - Andrew and I met up with Trevor and his friends to celebrate his birthday at Fox & Hound. Why haven't we hung out with these people before! They were a lot of fun. Green beer doesn't hurt either. Later that night, we met up with Justin and friends at the Rusty Nail. Have you ever heard of this place before? Def. a hole in the wall, but I liked it. I might have to give it another try when I'm in party mode instead of being a D.D.

Weekend Highlights:

- Fish fry (finally!)

- Card games and adult beverages

- Bbq lunch at Red Zone: I give it a 75%

- A good episode of The Wire

- Breakfast for dinner

- Being super productive. Spring cleaning!

- Deakin's 1st birthday party

- Picking out a hotel in Vancouver

Weekend Lowlights:

- Lego Star Wars being very frustrating

- Not getting any baking done

CABBAGE & A RUN

2011-03-22T17:11:00.000-05:00

Yesterday: Upon coming to work, I find a head of cabbage on my desk. Interesting. I learned that it was used as a decoration (?!?) for an event and they left one for me. I'm taking it on as a challenge. More on that later.

Last Night: I did my first trial 5k. Here is my inner monologue:

"What the f- am I doing? What the f- did I sign up for? F- you! (directed to the person grilling burgers) Will this ever end? Lindsey Lohan, you have no idea what I'm going through. (she was the current song on my ipod) Are we sure this f- thing is accurate? I can't do this anymore."

It was tough, but I finished. I will keep doing the trial 5k weekly. Hopefully, it will get easier and the inner monologue will get nicer. Also, during and after the workout my mouth tasted like blood and my teeth hurt! Weird. I couldn't find anything online about it. Ideas? If you guys don't help me out, I will probably just have to self-diagnose, and it won't be pretty.

THE WORST DAY OF HER LIFE

2011-03-17T07:22:00.001-05:00

Erin and Calypso did not have a good day. Both had to take a trip in the car, in their carriers to go see a vet eye specialist. I think I should start from the beginning...

Erin and Calypso were born in a cat colony at Iowa State University. They were breed for glaucoma research and because their glaucoma gene was dormant, they were available for adoption. Andrew's roommate Luke who was helping with the study brought home Calypso and not long after Erin came home too. Because Luke couldn't take them to med school, I took them in.

Not long ago, Andrew noticed a dark spot in Erin's eye. After it didn't go away, I started to get concerned. A short time later, we noticed that Calypson also had a spot in her eye. It was then that I made an appointment with the vet. After taking a look, the vet didn't want to take any chances and set us up with an appointment with a vet eye specialist.

By this point Erin and Calypso hate us. We have them in the back seat on their way to the eye appointment when Erin makes the sadest meow I have ever heard. I turned around to find that Erin had gotten sick at the front of her cage and it wasn't too long after that we realized that Erin had also made a mess in the back of her cage.

They were poked and prodded in the nicest way possible so we could get a better understanding of what was going on with their eyes. Today we learned that the spots in Erin and Calypso's spots are just that...spots. But just like moles on skin, they need to be monitored for changes and growth. Because the depth of these spots can't be seen with our eyes, Erin and Calypso will need to take regular trips to the eye doctor. If the spots grow or change, it could potentially turn into melanoma. If this happens, we start to look into treatments such as lasers or eye removal. Additionally, Erin has a significant amount of pressure in her eyes. If this continues, she could potentially have glaucoma. This is not the news I wanted to hear. It made me sick to my stomach to think about the awful things that could happen.

To make Erin's day worse, she had to have a bath. Luckily, she didn't take it too bad. Poor cat! I think these two will be getting the royal treatment for the next couple of days.